Hey there,
Background:
Been going out with my GF off and on for about 11 months now. She left for Puerto Rico about 2 weeks ago and it opened my eyes. Im 18 she is 17 and I plan on going to a 4 year University next year.
Story:
She left for Puerto Rico and I seriously thought it was going to bring us closer. Little did I think that it would open my eyes. I dont have the same feelings I did 2 weeks ago. I thought I loved this chick but I dont know. Shes atleast an HB 8 and smokin hot. Shes just really bossy and I admit I became whipped. So, this past week I got offered a job in a different state about 4 hours away paying 13.10 and hour! Now, I could seriously use this money for college next year and the job I have locally is more hours, half the pay and more work. So, I was talking to my GF and she suddenly said things werent working out and that we should end things. I was just like, alright and I hang up. She calls back 10 minutes later telling me she didnt wanna break up but I still did. the next 2 days she couldnt stop telling me how she loved me, she begged, and treatened to kill her self and told me that I was the one. I felt so bad and I fell through and took her back. When I told her about my job she immediately told me no your not going or im breaking up with you. Now, heres where my problem comes.
Problem:
I want to go and take this job offer and I have til tomorrow to decide. Now, I dont know how to tell my GF. I know how shes going to react and I hate seeing her hurt. She has a bad past with bad BF's and ive bene nothing but good to her. She realizes this now. What would you guys do? Would you break up with her?Tell her you just wanna be friends? Take the job or stay near-by to be with her?
Thanks guys!
Please help a brother in need!
Background:
Been going out with my GF off and on for about 11 months now. She left for Puerto Rico about 2 weeks ago and it opened my eyes. Im 18 she is 17 and I plan on going to a 4 year University next year.
Story:
She left for Puerto Rico and I seriously thought it was going to bring us closer. Little did I think that it would open my eyes. I dont have the same feelings I did 2 weeks ago. I thought I loved this chick but I dont know. Shes atleast an HB 8 and smokin hot. Shes just really bossy and I admit I became whipped. So, this past week I got offered a job in a different state about 4 hours away paying 13.10 and hour! Now, I could seriously use this money for college next year and the job I have locally is more hours, half the pay and more work. So, I was talking to my GF and she suddenly said things werent working out and that we should end things. I was just like, alright and I hang up. She calls back 10 minutes later telling me she didnt wanna break up but I still did. the next 2 days she couldnt stop telling me how she loved me, she begged, and treatened to kill her self and told me that I was the one. I felt so bad and I fell through and took her back. When I told her about my job she immediately told me no your not going or im breaking up with you. Now, heres where my problem comes.
Problem:
I want to go and take this job offer and I have til tomorrow to decide. Now, I dont know how to tell my GF. I know how shes going to react and I hate seeing her hurt. She has a bad past with bad BF's and ive bene nothing but good to her. She realizes this now. What would you guys do? Would you break up with her?Tell her you just wanna be friends? Take the job or stay near-by to be with her?
Thanks guys!
Please help a brother in need!