danielzxc said:No man, I was wondering whether you had anything specific in mind. Any idiot could have figured out the "talking" bit. (You'll notice in my posts I always try to give specific advice, not just generic kbj crap.)
That's not even remotely true for me. With "context excuses" I don't have any problem talking at all (fwiw, I think I'm pretty good at chatting). It's approaching someone out of the blue that I choke on. I "know" it's okay to just go up to a stranger and just talk, but I have a lot of trouble getting myself to do this.
Are you for real man? Maybe when I'm 40 I could say stuff like that. For now, that just sounds so gay man I'm rolling my eyes just reading it.
Do you actually go around saying "That's a unique necklace..." to chicks at checkout counters? I'm not against using something they are wearing to comment on, but this particular way of saying it... lol, that's not me at all.
Or even better (ie worse), "How about this weather we've been havin' eh?", like I'm some old farmer. How old are you man? You should say who your advice is directed to. Most people on here are trying to pick up 18-22 year olds. I can just imagine some little 18yr old groaning inside her mind at "how about the weather". You wanna talk weather, you say something like "fkkn hot today or what?". That would go down way better with your typical 18yr old than "how about this weather".
I did notice in one of your posts you said you hadn't had a girl in your good ol commodore for years.... I was trying to help you out some, no need to call me a KJ (hmmm), an idiot and gay...
If you don't like my advice don't use it, you are obviously way beyond me when it comes to this stuff.
attraction.
Good point. I stated that badly, nothing wrong with picking up a checkout chick... I just notcied a lot of dudes seemed to be focussed on some girl they talk to in shops and I'm trying to encourage dudes to break out into happier hunting grounds.
Props to you for pulling off some closes with them... something I've never done.
JJ