Been seeing this chick for about a month.
Good vibe from her, sex is good, and interest has been high.
About 4 days ago she took a trip to cali and up til yesterday she had been blowing me up with texts. Good morning baby type ones and good night ones too.
I would only reciprocate and not initiate these texts.
Then yesterday I notice no text, meh no big deal, just sent her a little hey how are things in cali textin the evening, and no response, and nothing today.
I don't care about the texting siliness as that is not the issue here.
This is, today I noticed on facebook she posted some soppy ecard that was remisnicent, and it said her location was in michigan, which is where her ex of 3 years is now staying. Under the card she posted "I have a lot of thinking to do :/ "
So putting 2 and 2 together here coming up with 4 obviously something is up. Her behavior with the texting prior to this was texting me everyday and now nothing, and now she obviously went to see her ex.
So from here should I just ghost and let her come back to me (if she does), or hit her up? I hate to reinitiate contact after my attempt wasn't even responded to and I also don't want to push her away while she is "thinking."
I'd like to continue on and keep banging her and am just wondering what you fellas would do in this situation. If she gets weird on me like she is probably going to oh, well, I'll focus on my other plate, but I'd like to keep her around if possible.
Good vibe from her, sex is good, and interest has been high.
About 4 days ago she took a trip to cali and up til yesterday she had been blowing me up with texts. Good morning baby type ones and good night ones too.
I would only reciprocate and not initiate these texts.
Then yesterday I notice no text, meh no big deal, just sent her a little hey how are things in cali textin the evening, and no response, and nothing today.
I don't care about the texting siliness as that is not the issue here.
This is, today I noticed on facebook she posted some soppy ecard that was remisnicent, and it said her location was in michigan, which is where her ex of 3 years is now staying. Under the card she posted "I have a lot of thinking to do :/ "
So putting 2 and 2 together here coming up with 4 obviously something is up. Her behavior with the texting prior to this was texting me everyday and now nothing, and now she obviously went to see her ex.
So from here should I just ghost and let her come back to me (if she does), or hit her up? I hate to reinitiate contact after my attempt wasn't even responded to and I also don't want to push her away while she is "thinking."
I'd like to continue on and keep banging her and am just wondering what you fellas would do in this situation. If she gets weird on me like she is probably going to oh, well, I'll focus on my other plate, but I'd like to keep her around if possible.