Triple X
Senior Don Juan
OK... I'll try and be brief.
Some of you might remember a while back (although I doubt it) about this incident where I got some girl's number who I met through ppl at a work party... she asked me to meet her with her 'friends' another time (who were basically male admirers and she came across as an AW)
Quite rightly, I arrived with some of my own friends in case she got flakey and ignored me (which she did). I think she might have thought the fact she was surrounded by men might have been a 'turn-on' to me or something (like the 'value' thing that women like when men have women after them). In fact, it did the opposite - I thought 'f*** that, she's surrounded by men' and left her alone.
I since NEXTed her, and thought nothing more of it. This was about 3 months ago. Ironically I was only thinking the other day 'I really must delete [name]'s number.. there's no point having it on my phone anymore'
Then lo and behold... on Wednesday I got a text from her. Actually not just one, but FOUR.
They read something like this (condensed obviously so you don't get bored):
"DONT MISS THIS!!! Night of fun and games at [place] on [date]... the night of your life!! RSVP" that was the first.
Then a second, saying something like "Actually my mistake!! We are going to [place] not [original place], sorry!! xx"
Then a third, and a fourth basically saying she needs a response this Friday (ie today).
I mean WTF?!?! I barely know the girl, and had all but completely forgotten about her and then she messages me out of the blue.
My immediate thought was that obviously she has noticed my refusal to pay her attention and realised that I am not a chump like the rest of her male 'friends' and maybe I am worth pursuing. But then I thought, what if she texted the wrong person?! I mean she must know plenty of guys with the same name as me??
But then, she texted me FOUR times so she must have thought about what she was doing. So, WTF?!?
So I guess what I'm asking is... how do I play this? I've gotta text her today as she said respond by Friday (and yes I have hesitated to respond in true DJ style) and I would love to go along.. especially as she works with another HOT girl who I like too..
I was thinking something along the lines of "Hi [name], that sounds good... I'm not sure if I can make [date] at the moment (ie not sounding desperate). But are you sure you got the right person? This is [my name]"
Yes? No?
All responses welcome... but I need them fairly quickly as I gotta text her after work (about 4-5hrs or so) so ASAP plz folks. Thanx!!
Some of you might remember a while back (although I doubt it) about this incident where I got some girl's number who I met through ppl at a work party... she asked me to meet her with her 'friends' another time (who were basically male admirers and she came across as an AW)
Quite rightly, I arrived with some of my own friends in case she got flakey and ignored me (which she did). I think she might have thought the fact she was surrounded by men might have been a 'turn-on' to me or something (like the 'value' thing that women like when men have women after them). In fact, it did the opposite - I thought 'f*** that, she's surrounded by men' and left her alone.
I since NEXTed her, and thought nothing more of it. This was about 3 months ago. Ironically I was only thinking the other day 'I really must delete [name]'s number.. there's no point having it on my phone anymore'
Then lo and behold... on Wednesday I got a text from her. Actually not just one, but FOUR.
They read something like this (condensed obviously so you don't get bored):
"DONT MISS THIS!!! Night of fun and games at [place] on [date]... the night of your life!! RSVP" that was the first.
Then a second, saying something like "Actually my mistake!! We are going to [place] not [original place], sorry!! xx"
Then a third, and a fourth basically saying she needs a response this Friday (ie today).
I mean WTF?!?! I barely know the girl, and had all but completely forgotten about her and then she messages me out of the blue.
My immediate thought was that obviously she has noticed my refusal to pay her attention and realised that I am not a chump like the rest of her male 'friends' and maybe I am worth pursuing. But then I thought, what if she texted the wrong person?! I mean she must know plenty of guys with the same name as me??
But then, she texted me FOUR times so she must have thought about what she was doing. So, WTF?!?
So I guess what I'm asking is... how do I play this? I've gotta text her today as she said respond by Friday (and yes I have hesitated to respond in true DJ style) and I would love to go along.. especially as she works with another HOT girl who I like too..
I was thinking something along the lines of "Hi [name], that sounds good... I'm not sure if I can make [date] at the moment (ie not sounding desperate). But are you sure you got the right person? This is [my name]"
Yes? No?
All responses welcome... but I need them fairly quickly as I gotta text her after work (about 4-5hrs or so) so ASAP plz folks. Thanx!!