What a lot of guys are missing is that C+F works BEST when you've established great RAPPORT between you and the woman you like.
After all, you like her, don't you?
Or are you just trying to act like an a**hole?
A lot of guys that are angry and resentful towards women use Negs, and C+F in an arrogant and demeaning manner.
Sure , they may be charming and good looking, but they're still a**holes.
Good people do NOT insult the people that they genuinley like, admire, and are attracted to.
Personally, I aspire to be better than that.
You may not agree, but I refuse to act like an a**hole to get some chick to "think" I'm High Vaklue.
Man...I AM High Value already, Goddamnit.
I jut see no reason to turn it on so thick with a woman who has such a strong B*tch Shield, and is obviously so self centered, that I have to resort to using extreme amounts of technique just to get her to notice me. Last thing I want to do is go after som estyuck up b*tch, just becasue "OMG! She's so HAWT!"
HAWT is not synonymous with nice. HAWT is not synonymous with sweet, loving, felxible, and giving.
HAWT does not mean Feminine and nurturing to my children.
Guys, look at the bigger picture. That's all I'm saying. I don't want to se eyou at 40 plus years and a lonely miserable fVck, looking aporn, spending all youtr time online, and dragging your feet through the day.
Wishing, hoping, dreamin...but NOT ACTING.
That's death, man. Living death.
DOn't do this.
There's alot at stake for you.
And there's a lot more to this than just Pick Up.
There's a reason we use the Don Juan model in this forum, and NOT just "pick Up'.
Think about that...deeply.
Granted, I attract women on my proesence, image, and demeanor Alone, without saying a word.
But the last thing I want to do is fvck it all up when I open my mouth.
And don't say "yeah, buit You're NOT doing it right!"
It's not that I'm not doing it right, but my personality and image is just not congruent with trying to "come off' as better and more high value. I already Am. Know what I mean?
So this is what is happening to the community.
You've got guys who take this stuff too literally. And mess up.
You've got guys that use this and it works for them.
And then you've got guys like me, who are in a different stage and mindset, and don't need a cheap "technique" to get a woman to be attracted to me, and interested in who I am.
It's all about who YOU want to BE.
What kind of image do you see yourself as?
Are you really a classy guy? Do you treat women like ladies, or do you treat them all like sh*t?
Now, hold on. No one said about putting the chick on a pedastle, or worshipping her, or doing favors yada yada...
I'm talking about seeing her as a human being, with good things, and bad things, and knowing this chick wants to get her world rocked bad, real bad....
But damn, learn how to calibrate , guys.
LEarn abou ther mannerism, personality, sense of humor, and what makes her tick.
Listen to her words, her pacing, her body, her EYES....
Most of the women I interact with respond with a sexually playful and suggestive C+F..but it's not over the top. And it doesn't ever make her feel like she's beneath me.
It's just that I don't take her as intimidating to me. She's not powerful for me.
Understand?
So I play with her. But still maintain a sense of respect, but sexuality is present. Hell, I just stand there half the time, and chicks can't stop staring!
Sounds coinceited. I know. That's not the point I'm trying to get across. I give an example because I have to.If I use C+F the way it's ..ahem..."Supposed" to be used..I'll come off as a conceited arrogant snob, who's too "into himself".
I'm not that guy. I'm not going to say that I'm not Selfish. BUT...that doesn't mean I don't respect and apprecitate people, and that I don't act with grace and consideration.
The idea is that C+F needs to be calibrated for YOU and HER.
You need to know who you are, dudes.
You need to know how she responds. And calibrate.
Don't think it's all about being a jerk.That's immature, and petty.
Rise above that sh*t.
Dude, we talk about becoming Alpha Males in here.
Alpha Males.
Do you really know what this mean?
I do.
And I can tell you that half the posts I see in here demonstrate that the average guy has NO freakin' CLUE!!!
Fvck, C+F.
Become a man, Goddamnit.
Realize your Alphaness, and your TRUE VALUE.
THIS is so very, very important. That I feel we're missing the bigger picture.
And I fear that with half the guys on here being just teenagers, we're presenting the wrong picture to them.
And what's going to happen when.if they ahve kids?
How are you going to teach your little boy, little man?
You're probably 17, and you have no clue on being a Man.You better start learning now, and fast.
You don't really have a choice anymore,.
You don't and you never HAD the "luxury" of NOT becoming a Man, a secure and confident masculine Man.
I look forward to seeing you on the battlefield.
Get ready.
Rant over. Carry on.