GotED?
Master Don Juan
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I would like to hear from everyone so far what are a few major points of wisdom or beliefs you have learned about women so far in your life to share with others. Please post your age and how many LTRs (6 months +) and marriages you have had in life to qualify your experience.
Me
Age: 39
LTRs: 3
Married: twice
Words of Wisdom to Share about Women:
1) The hotter they are, the more emotional/temperament/personality issues you will encounter and have to put up with entitlement problems. Learn where your upper boundary is in the level of attractiveness of the woman you can get. And if you keep getting into women who have nothing to offer on the insides, learn to be with women who are a bit less physically attractive if you are looking for LTR.
2) Women who are raised without a father figure (single mothers, etc) have way more mental, emotional, self-esteem hurdles than you can imagine. DO yourself a favor and don't be trapped by their looks, tread carefully with these women.
3) Look at a woman's mother and you will most likely have a good predictor of her true personality (especially in the beginning they will be glossed over due to her facade of perfection). If you fear her mother, run the opposite direction fast!
4) Never show more interest to a woman than she gives you, or else you will lose your frame. Once you lose it, it is hard to recover.
5) Do not allow a woman to disrespect you; there are many women raised in this decade of utter confusion on what a woman's role is. A strong man is meant to be with a feminine woman, not a woman who is trying to be a man. Let those women who are trying to be a man pick up the AFC's instead.
6) Have the courage to dump a woman if you feel truly she does not contribute more happiness to your life than without her. Do not be stuck with being afraid of being alone, being afraid of starting all over, being afraid of not doing as well again. These are the trap of a weak-willed man who would rather be in misery with the wrong woman and have his balls tied up for life.
7) Watch out for personality disordered women - the Borderlines and Narcissists are hardest to find out until you are too deep in the relationship (and that's usually when it surfaces - fear of intimacy and fear of abandonement issues). If a woman comes on too quickly in the beginning wanting a LTR, you can bet your AFC ass that she will disappear just as quickly once she gets bored with you.
8) A woman's greatest fear and strongest attraction is being with a man who is so sure that he is the prize that he has no issues about dumping her at anytime.
9) The person that you need to love the most out of everyone in the world is yourself - that's right. Without figuring out this very important part of life, you will always get trampled and walked over by women (if you get there). To even get trampled or walked over, you need to first attract women without being needy, insecure, or pedestal them to the heavens.
with respect,
Exodus
Me
Age: 39
LTRs: 3
Married: twice
Words of Wisdom to Share about Women:
1) The hotter they are, the more emotional/temperament/personality issues you will encounter and have to put up with entitlement problems. Learn where your upper boundary is in the level of attractiveness of the woman you can get. And if you keep getting into women who have nothing to offer on the insides, learn to be with women who are a bit less physically attractive if you are looking for LTR.
2) Women who are raised without a father figure (single mothers, etc) have way more mental, emotional, self-esteem hurdles than you can imagine. DO yourself a favor and don't be trapped by their looks, tread carefully with these women.
3) Look at a woman's mother and you will most likely have a good predictor of her true personality (especially in the beginning they will be glossed over due to her facade of perfection). If you fear her mother, run the opposite direction fast!
4) Never show more interest to a woman than she gives you, or else you will lose your frame. Once you lose it, it is hard to recover.
5) Do not allow a woman to disrespect you; there are many women raised in this decade of utter confusion on what a woman's role is. A strong man is meant to be with a feminine woman, not a woman who is trying to be a man. Let those women who are trying to be a man pick up the AFC's instead.
6) Have the courage to dump a woman if you feel truly she does not contribute more happiness to your life than without her. Do not be stuck with being afraid of being alone, being afraid of starting all over, being afraid of not doing as well again. These are the trap of a weak-willed man who would rather be in misery with the wrong woman and have his balls tied up for life.
7) Watch out for personality disordered women - the Borderlines and Narcissists are hardest to find out until you are too deep in the relationship (and that's usually when it surfaces - fear of intimacy and fear of abandonement issues). If a woman comes on too quickly in the beginning wanting a LTR, you can bet your AFC ass that she will disappear just as quickly once she gets bored with you.
8) A woman's greatest fear and strongest attraction is being with a man who is so sure that he is the prize that he has no issues about dumping her at anytime.
9) The person that you need to love the most out of everyone in the world is yourself - that's right. Without figuring out this very important part of life, you will always get trampled and walked over by women (if you get there). To even get trampled or walked over, you need to first attract women without being needy, insecure, or pedestal them to the heavens.
with respect,
Exodus
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