"rather than acting like a normal person and trying not to fvck up but apologizing and making up for it when i do, i will fvck up with reckless abandon at my own whims and you're just supposed to be expected to deal with it"
This.
Women know what they are doing. They are using and abusing a system that is set up to kiss their assess and constantly pander to them. Don't think that women are doing the things they do because they 'just can't help it. boo hoo'. They are as conniving and cunning as anyone or anything out there. They are simply taking advantage of an overly feminized society where leaders and men look the other way at their atrocious behavior.
Always, ALWAYS call women out on their bull****, even if it means losing them.
Examples:
Case Scenario. Let's say you're out on a 1st or 2nd date with some woman.
Wrong way
Her: "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."
Clueless idiot: "You know I tend to agree. I mean women have had such a hard time over the years and I can certainly understand their need to blow off steam from time to time. Listen, don't ever feel bad for doing that around me. I certainly don't mind"
Right way
Her: "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best".
Man: "I have no interest, time or patience for that type of attitude. If that is the type of woman you are, then this isn't going to work. Any questions?"
^It's really that simple. No need to laugh or joke about it in a nervous way either. Let her know that you're not putting up with that crap. Period. If she doesn't like it, you dump her and don't look back.