Blackstaff
Don Juan
hello guys...it's been like 2 or 3 years since my last post here, and i just wanted to listen to my old friend sosuave and the guys that make it alive to have a *sigh* heart-to-heart talk
well, i have a problem with the intention girls carry for me; which i hate to call as "long time relationship". as the title advertises, i dont want "ltr"s for a while; just intimacy to make girls f*ck buddies for me. I dont know if the fact that im a dancer affects these intentions of girls that are around me for me (dance kind of creates a bond between ppl - or so it is said ) but whenever i have sex with these girls, they start looking for something more *meaningful*. One recent girl i had met through dancing invited me to her house to have dinner with her roommate. We had a great night, went to a club afterwards and after the lights of her roommate were off, we got sensual.. She resisted at first to have sex; saying that she didnt even know me, and she would later regret it. But i saw the fire and made it happen by itself. One day passes, and she asks why i did not call her. She says she doesnt want to have a **** buddy type relationship (she doesnt tell her so, she just means it) The problem is, I dont like the "Whatever, i dont care...i'll just tell it straight and dont give a f*ck if she feels like a sl*t" style. This is a good girl and she and her roommate were really kind to me that night, i really enjoyed the time with her. I want to keep this girl, but not in a ltr style (with my hopes for being f*ck buddies). What are ur opinions on this matter guys, what do you think should be done and said on such occasions ?
well, i have a problem with the intention girls carry for me; which i hate to call as "long time relationship". as the title advertises, i dont want "ltr"s for a while; just intimacy to make girls f*ck buddies for me. I dont know if the fact that im a dancer affects these intentions of girls that are around me for me (dance kind of creates a bond between ppl - or so it is said ) but whenever i have sex with these girls, they start looking for something more *meaningful*. One recent girl i had met through dancing invited me to her house to have dinner with her roommate. We had a great night, went to a club afterwards and after the lights of her roommate were off, we got sensual.. She resisted at first to have sex; saying that she didnt even know me, and she would later regret it. But i saw the fire and made it happen by itself. One day passes, and she asks why i did not call her. She says she doesnt want to have a **** buddy type relationship (she doesnt tell her so, she just means it) The problem is, I dont like the "Whatever, i dont care...i'll just tell it straight and dont give a f*ck if she feels like a sl*t" style. This is a good girl and she and her roommate were really kind to me that night, i really enjoyed the time with her. I want to keep this girl, but not in a ltr style (with my hopes for being f*ck buddies). What are ur opinions on this matter guys, what do you think should be done and said on such occasions ?