I am doing maintenance in a vacation park. Soley young couples with young kids. No such thing as a group of friends who're renting a spot. Soley young couples
And I've hardly ever seen an hb7 or more. I work there every day, they have over a 1000 houses and its always packed. So I've seen thousands of couples and the most common theme was ALWAYS that the dude had similar or more smv than her.
Previously I used to look DOWN on such a man so I didn't even payed attention to it. Lately however, I start to see things differently.
I think most men (like most women'!!) don't even realise that they have 10 options and they ditch 8 of them by default, only to chase the two options that are actually most out of reach.
In that case, I already secured mine.
So I'm free to entertain my kittens.
Yes. You have. Me too. But plenty of men don't.
Imagine being 30 and wishing for a legacy, while simultaneously trying to do this with a hb7 plus and soley relying on apps,while you get NOTHING. Such a man would (imo) be better off by
lowering his standards.
Has nothing to do with fatalism or something like that. Its realism.
By the way , WAY before i ever knew about the RP this was a strategy that's been deployed by default in my culture ( Caribbean): you take one default bytch who treats you right. Mostly she'll won't have the highest smv.
The high smv h0es get treated like snacks. Its common knowledge that the hotter she is, the less she'll fit for legacy purposes.
