I've been a member at this site for at least a year now, but just about a month or two ago have I gone out on a pretty regular basis (4+ days a week) to socialize / get numbers.
At first it was really tough for me to get the confidence to speak to ANYONE unless they came up and spoke to me (cashiers / salespeople). I still feel like I "freeze out" sometimes, but for the most part, my confidence is a lot higher now than it was, and I can push through the initial doubts a lot better now than even 2 weeks ago.
Anyway, I've gotten a few numbers in the process, but one thing I've found in common with these girls is that they don't call me back when I call them, and the last girl I talked to (for the first time since we met) was pretty rude to me.
I probably already know the answer to my own question, I don't know, maybe I just need some reassurance. Did any of you guys come across this same problem? What did you do to overcome it?
At first it was really tough for me to get the confidence to speak to ANYONE unless they came up and spoke to me (cashiers / salespeople). I still feel like I "freeze out" sometimes, but for the most part, my confidence is a lot higher now than it was, and I can push through the initial doubts a lot better now than even 2 weeks ago.
Anyway, I've gotten a few numbers in the process, but one thing I've found in common with these girls is that they don't call me back when I call them, and the last girl I talked to (for the first time since we met) was pretty rude to me.
I probably already know the answer to my own question, I don't know, maybe I just need some reassurance. Did any of you guys come across this same problem? What did you do to overcome it?