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Master Don Juan
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As I observe people, I'm really starting to think that age is just a number. The reason most people start to fall apart at 30 and 40 is because they stop taking care of themselves. They get married, get comfortable, spend all their time running errands for the kids, never take the time to eat right or exercise, never get out and do anything to keep life interesting...it's go to work, come home, throw something in the microwave, watch some sh!tty sitcom, go to bed. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Use it or lose it.
30 is a great place to be...you're still young enough to do all the things you wanted to do when you were younger, but now you're just starting to have enough money/means to actually DO them. Too many people "settle down" early. I can understand the joy of having a child...my sister has a kid and he's fun as crap to hang around. I hope to have one one day. But I, like you, am in NO RUSH. If I find the "right girl", then it'll happen. If it doesn't, then I keep on living. I'm on my own "program" now...and I can only shake my head at those who are still trying to figure out how others want them to live.
Kailex, right on, man. Women are indeed a byproduct of a fun life, not the focus of it.
Use it or lose it.
30 is a great place to be...you're still young enough to do all the things you wanted to do when you were younger, but now you're just starting to have enough money/means to actually DO them. Too many people "settle down" early. I can understand the joy of having a child...my sister has a kid and he's fun as crap to hang around. I hope to have one one day. But I, like you, am in NO RUSH. If I find the "right girl", then it'll happen. If it doesn't, then I keep on living. I'm on my own "program" now...and I can only shake my head at those who are still trying to figure out how others want them to live.
Kailex, right on, man. Women are indeed a byproduct of a fun life, not the focus of it.