I have a slightly different view on this. I don't immediately disregard the option of using sex or naked photos as some sort of blackmail. However, i do believe that there has to be a proper reason. Not because you are butthurt or feel disrespected. It has to be in a situation where she can fvck up some part of your life in an unacceptable manner. I'm currently in such a situation. She could force me to sell the apartment (which i pay for and live in alone atm) we bought together as i'm unable to take over our mortgage in full at this point.
In such a situation i would contemplate using it as leverage if there would ever be a probability that i would have to sell the apartment and rent instead. It would put me back many, many years.
I would never really post or make the pictures public. That is a fvcking ****ty thing to do, and i agree with the other posters that those pics were for your and her eyes only. However, using it as leverage in a bluff is something else. If she calls your bluff, she wins. If she doesn't, you can have it your way.
I do consider this a last resort. A final, desperate measure and not something you should do without having a possibly ****ty outcome if you stay passive.
In such a situation i would contemplate using it as leverage if there would ever be a probability that i would have to sell the apartment and rent instead. It would put me back many, many years.
I would never really post or make the pictures public. That is a fvcking ****ty thing to do, and i agree with the other posters that those pics were for your and her eyes only. However, using it as leverage in a bluff is something else. If she calls your bluff, she wins. If she doesn't, you can have it your way.
I do consider this a last resort. A final, desperate measure and not something you should do without having a possibly ****ty outcome if you stay passive.