Oftentimes when dealing with people, be it a discussion, negotiation or simple fun conversation, I try to put myself in other people's minds. After or before the interaction mostly. I find this is extremely helpful and insightful.
I had tried doing this when it comes to relationships with women, but I did it rarely and with limited success. I think I believed the "women can't be understood" myth.
Since discovering the manosphere I find that this much more useful now, thanks to hypergamy, amused mastery, alphas and betas, etc.
But I still fall short many times.
When I mean "putting myself in other people's minds" I really mean trying to think and feel like a woman, and her attraction to a man... And this is also why I never used it here before. It's hard for me to imagine myself attracted to a man.
(Is gender a social construction?)
So.
I want to read crystal-clear pure-honesty opinions of women who can self-analyse their behaviour and attraction before and after knowing about the red pill.
Are there blogs or books out there?
I had tried doing this when it comes to relationships with women, but I did it rarely and with limited success. I think I believed the "women can't be understood" myth.
Since discovering the manosphere I find that this much more useful now, thanks to hypergamy, amused mastery, alphas and betas, etc.
But I still fall short many times.
When I mean "putting myself in other people's minds" I really mean trying to think and feel like a woman, and her attraction to a man... And this is also why I never used it here before. It's hard for me to imagine myself attracted to a man.
(Is gender a social construction?)
So.
I want to read crystal-clear pure-honesty opinions of women who can self-analyse their behaviour and attraction before and after knowing about the red pill.
Are there blogs or books out there?