SoSuave666
Master Don Juan
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You continue to break no contact. Every time you have a small success of 5 days NC you break it. Let me give you a little advice:Failed again the challenge. Wrote to her again a long text by humiliating her and how much of a low value sl#t she is . She answered fast , she didn’t respond to any of what i told her but she only blamed my best friend of telling me things about her which she says are not true. Messed with her a bit calling her names she didn’t like and i just bloked her everywhere on social media. Felt free after that time .
I believe this was the end and feel glad i ended this relation with her and that I wont be seeing her ever again .
You are a ***** in her eyes. You blocked her on social media? ***** move. You are going NC? ***** move. You are thinking about her all the time? ***** move. You write her a long text? ***** move. You are exuding terrible behavior, and not only is she and all her friends aware you are a *****, but most likely everyone around you can sense it too.
Now on to the good news: NC is for no one but yourself. You are the master of your own feelings. Feelings CAN BE CHANGED and they can be changed very quickly...if...just like anything else...you dedicate yourself to it. Every day you wake up, your first thought should be "I'm the ****ing man. Here are all my good qualities." Then you list them out. Set goals for yourself to accomplish that day and take great pride in checking them off the list and accomplishing things completely unrelated to anyone but you.
You are not in a place where you can approach women. If you go out on the weekends a bit of liquid courage may make things easier, but you're absolutely in no state of mind to have any real success with a woman. So you focus on yourself instead (which you should always do anyway). You blocked her on social media? Fine, stick to it. Better yet, get your ass off social media for a bit. Unplug yourself from all the social masturbators hunting for internet karma.
Put yourself first. It's the only way to become better. I ****ing miss the days of my first breakup that brought me to this site. I was so motivated for self improvement that I dropped weight, got a better job, and grinded on my purpose. You have no idea the power you have right now after a break up to make yourself a better man. It's time to take the power back in your life.