thecraftylefty
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 20, 2001
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Lately, what I've been seeing in the community is that guys don't know how, or more precisely how much, C&P to use on a girl. Most guys will overcompensate by using too much instead of too little C&P. Seems like a practical idea. But then the guy goes too far and can't back up his ****y with funny or he doesn't do anything but try to be ****y and playful. This is bad.
You see, you guys don't know when to transition from a high point and then let off of the C&F for a while and shift to a more rapport based conversational mode. After a few jokes and playful humour and whatnot, merge the conversation into one where you can relate and connect with each other instead of bickering back ****y and funny crap all day long because that will get you nowhere.
The overabuse of C&P will be your downfall if you don't keep it in check. Learn to guage responses and (for lack of a better term) "phase shift" the mood to a more relaxed yet controlled setting.
Become a good observer and make practical decisions when dealing with women. Don't try to figure them out, let them do it for you .
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty
You see, you guys don't know when to transition from a high point and then let off of the C&F for a while and shift to a more rapport based conversational mode. After a few jokes and playful humour and whatnot, merge the conversation into one where you can relate and connect with each other instead of bickering back ****y and funny crap all day long because that will get you nowhere.
The overabuse of C&P will be your downfall if you don't keep it in check. Learn to guage responses and (for lack of a better term) "phase shift" the mood to a more relaxed yet controlled setting.
Become a good observer and make practical decisions when dealing with women. Don't try to figure them out, let them do it for you .
"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."
thecraftylefty