SoCalMike
Senior Don Juan
STR8UP said:Wow, potato actually said something that makes sense!
I don't know what bars or restaurants you guys are going to, but the places I have been the hottie bartenders smile at me and get me my drinks and go about their business. I was at a bar last night that has some of the hottest bartenders you will ever see. I'm talking Playboy material, some of them. No problems whatsoever.
You see her as uber hot and automatically assume it's her looks that causes her attitude. I think you might be imagining things. These women make their living off their looks and attitude. You got a bad apple.
As far as a normal chick being standoffish when you aren't even hitting on them....it happened to me a few weeks ago in a bar. There was a tall, decent looking chick standing next to me facing a couple of douchebag looking guys who were wearing t-shirts that said something really odd and kinda gay. Don't remember what the shirts said, but I was curious so I impulsively turned to this chick and asked her if she knew what it meant.
You would think I was trying to chat up Angelina Jolie when she was on the rag and suffering from the flu or something. As I was talking, she started turning to face the opposite direction, wouldn't even look me in the eye and just kind of shrugged her shoulders with a blank look on her face.
B!tch, or b!tch shield? Who knows. Was her attitude called for, considering I was only asking her a question? I don't think it was, but oh well...whatever. Thing is, I'm sure she thought I WAS trying to pick her up, and she probably wasn't physically attracted to me. I'm not ugly, but I know not every chick is gonna dig me, so whatever.
The argument is not "all hot chicks are *****y and stuck up". The argument is it is MORE COMMON behaviour from the 9's/10's vs 6's/7's/8's. I believe I am now repeating myself.