I was just watching The Girls Next Door, and they were bringing in new prospects to audition for the magazine.
During her interview, one of the girls mentioned something about having grown up in a conservative, churchgoing family, and that it was difficult for her to resolve the conflict between being a "good" girl and posing naked in a magazine.
She said something about it being like having a little Angel telling her "no, no", and a little Devil telling her "Just do it! Have fun!".
That got me thinking. Even if a woman isn't that religious, there is enormous pressure for them to uphold a certain standard set forth by the collective attitude that is held by society at that moment in time. So there is always a struggle between the Angel and the Devil.
This is important to understand because women are engaged in a constant struggle between doing what is "right" versus what their emotions are telling them to do.
Is there any wonder why women seem so whacked out at times? Most women have a strong need to conform to society's standards (with good reason), yet they are faced with constant temptation to step outside of those boundaries.
It's like having experimented with a drug and having a good experience, then walking away so you don't become addicted, just to have someone on every corner going "Psssst....c'mere. I got the GOOD stuff!".
So much of a woman's actions are a result of this conflict.
Why does she let you rub her pu$$y but she won't let you fukk her? Why does she make you wait three dates to have sex?
For a man, it's all about helping a woman resolve this inner conflict.
I see a lot of men being overtly judgmental. Why? A woman is going to do stuff that men (and society in general) will frown upon. And the more she is criticized for this behavior, the more she is going to hide it.
I firmly believe that I am able to see a more realistic side of women that I know, due to the fact that I don't play judge and jury.
A woman is a shape-shifting creature. She will mold herself to the ideal that YOU project upon her. If you are the judgmental type, she will divulge only the information she believes you can handle. If you let her know that you understand that she is only HUMAN, she will show you a completely different side of herself.
So who would you rather be? Guy "A" who projects a judgmental attitude that causes women to become even better a actresses? Or guy "B" who is allowed to see what women are REALLY like?
Being guy "B" works for me, but I get the idea that some guys would rather see a glossed over version of the female species than face the fact that they aren't perfect. Some guys just can't handle the truth.
During her interview, one of the girls mentioned something about having grown up in a conservative, churchgoing family, and that it was difficult for her to resolve the conflict between being a "good" girl and posing naked in a magazine.
She said something about it being like having a little Angel telling her "no, no", and a little Devil telling her "Just do it! Have fun!".
That got me thinking. Even if a woman isn't that religious, there is enormous pressure for them to uphold a certain standard set forth by the collective attitude that is held by society at that moment in time. So there is always a struggle between the Angel and the Devil.
This is important to understand because women are engaged in a constant struggle between doing what is "right" versus what their emotions are telling them to do.
Is there any wonder why women seem so whacked out at times? Most women have a strong need to conform to society's standards (with good reason), yet they are faced with constant temptation to step outside of those boundaries.
It's like having experimented with a drug and having a good experience, then walking away so you don't become addicted, just to have someone on every corner going "Psssst....c'mere. I got the GOOD stuff!".
So much of a woman's actions are a result of this conflict.
Why does she let you rub her pu$$y but she won't let you fukk her? Why does she make you wait three dates to have sex?
For a man, it's all about helping a woman resolve this inner conflict.
I see a lot of men being overtly judgmental. Why? A woman is going to do stuff that men (and society in general) will frown upon. And the more she is criticized for this behavior, the more she is going to hide it.
I firmly believe that I am able to see a more realistic side of women that I know, due to the fact that I don't play judge and jury.
A woman is a shape-shifting creature. She will mold herself to the ideal that YOU project upon her. If you are the judgmental type, she will divulge only the information she believes you can handle. If you let her know that you understand that she is only HUMAN, she will show you a completely different side of herself.
So who would you rather be? Guy "A" who projects a judgmental attitude that causes women to become even better a actresses? Or guy "B" who is allowed to see what women are REALLY like?
Being guy "B" works for me, but I get the idea that some guys would rather see a glossed over version of the female species than face the fact that they aren't perfect. Some guys just can't handle the truth.
