Framing her actions or behaviors as meaning, She's uncool, she's a total dork, she's a total goofball, she's just a complete geek and, most male/female interactions, the girl is the cool one and the guy is the dork, ok? The woman becomes the Judge and gets to decide, what's cool and what's not cool. Women are always busting on Guys for not being cool, for being dorks, for being goofballs. Now I'm a total proponent of you acting like a goofball or, you acting dorky, but you gotta know how to make dorky cool. But what I'm against is you allowing a frame to be set that, the woman is the cool one and you're the dorky guy, because when you Do this, it implicates the metaframe that she is the prize you're trying to win over, and as you know, women Feel no attraction toward men who aren't the prize. So you're always better off letting a woman know, that you're the cool one and she's the dorky girl. If maybe a woman pronounces a word wrong, let her know she's a dork and you're the cool one. Bust on her for this, ok? Let her know she's a complete dork. If a woman makes some sort of spastic expression, you need to bust on her for it, maybe say to her, "Oh my God, I cannot believe you made that expression. You know, if I'm gonna take you around my cool friends, you're gonna need to get botox, so you don't creep em out with that bizarre, spastic expression of yours." If, I don't know, maybe a woman, snorts like a pig (snonk snonk) or maybe she, laughs like a horse (hunt hunet) you need to bust on her for it, maybe say to her, "OK there Mr. Ed, most of the restaurants I like to dine at don't allow horses, so I don't think this relationship is gonna work out." If a woman unjustifably gets upset at you, maybe say to her, "Do you have a red nose? Do you have a costume? to go along with that silly act of yours?" Now All of these things are great, because they set the frame that you're the cool guy and she's the dorky girl, and that implies the metaframe that you are the prize, she's trying to win over ok?, that is setting the groundwork for a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Framing her actions or behaviors as meaning she's rude or insensitive or that she lacks class. This is great. Most guys are really, scared to call most women on unacceptable behavior. Now I'm not saying that you should be moralistic with a woman, what I'm saying is that, you need to call women on unacceptable behavior. Oftentimes, women will act unacceptable and guys will only tolerate it because they wanta get into a woman's pants. If one of their friends acted that way, they'd stop being friends with that person, ok? Women know this, they know when you're accomodating them and, this communicates to a woman that you are a man who is not the prize, and as you know if you're not the prize, this is suicide to Any attraction that you could have generated with her. A few months ago I was out with a buddy of mine, we're at some bar, it was a total dive and, we met this girl there and, she was acting quiet obnoxious. I guess she had ordered a drink and the bartendress had messed up her drink and she said to the bartender, "Do you speak English? What's wrong with you?" I thought it was, unacceptable behavior. I really don't tolerate that behavior and I said to her, "You know, you're a real jerk for saying that. I don't tolerate that sort of behavior, I don't think I want to talk to you anymore." And she proceeded to tell my friend that she felt that I was an ******* and I hurt her feelings and my friend tried to get me to apologize, and I thought to myself, "ABsoLutely Not" of course, I'm not gonna apologize. This woman was a jerk. Well, as the night progressed, who do you think she was most interested in? Me, of course, because I let her know, that I have standards and expectations, that I am a prize, she has to win over.
You can say to a woman, "You know, you're a real jerk for doing that" or "You're a real jerk for saying that, I don't think I wanta talk to you anymore." Another great one is, reality check, "That Act of yours actually won't work outside the trailer-park" or you could say, "Were you raised in a double-wide, because that Act of yours, won't work on me" or another great one is, "Does that attitude come with you? or do you have to pay extra" or you could say (this is a great one, ok this might get you into trouble, but this can be very powerful) "Are you a ***** to everyone? or Only people that are cooler than you." Now All of these are great, because they frame a woman's behaviors as being rude, insensitive or classless ok? And oftentimes women's behaviors Do need to be framed as this, ok? And this of course implicates the metaframe that You are a prize, She is trying to win over.
Framing her actions or behaviors as her being a pervert or sleezeball or, as her not being so subtle about making a sexual pass at you, or as her trying to get her, dirty little paws inside your pants. Women are Masters at framing guys' behaviors and actions as, them being perverts and sleezeballs. Even when a guy thinks he's doing his good deed for the year, and going up to a fat woman striking up a conversation with her because he feels sorry for her, it's quite probable the fat woman is going to frame his nice deed as, him being a sleezeball or a pervert or as Him wanting to get into her pants, even when the poor bastard couldn't get it up in a billion years for her. So what I suggest you do, it's really powerful to reverse this on women, to accuse women and to frame women's behaviors and actions as them being perverts and sleezeballs. So for example, maybe you're talking to a woman, you're getting along with her, everything is going great, and she inadvertently bumps into or she innocuously touches your arm, look at her in kind of an offended tone, like she's Really crossed the line and say something like, "You know, I'm not just a sausage with feet. You can touch, but it's gonna cost you." Or here's a great one (I actually discovered this years ago) whenever I talked to women who had really nice racks, during the conversation as their conversation would progress, at a certain point, my eyes would start to meander downward, until I had perfect eye-contact with their nipples, and inevitably women would say to me, "Um, my eyes are not down here, they're up here" so I found a great, powerful way to reverse this on women (and you don't need to get breast implants to make this work). At a certain point during your interaction with a woman (if you have good rapport with her), look away (ok if you're in rapport with her, she'll look away too), then look down at the ground at your feet (she'll follow, she'll look down towards the ground too), and in an offended tone pointing to your crotch say, "Um, my eyes are not down here, they're up here. I'd appreciate it if you just, didn't stare at my crotch like I'm some sort of, sex object." Ok now all these examples are powerful because what they're doing is they're setting frames that the Woman is a pervert, that she's a sleezeball, and this sets the metaframe that, you are a prize she's trying to win over.
Another great frame to set is, putting a woman on the point-system. So for example if I'm at a bar and, I meet a woman and her name is Michelle, I'll say to her, "Michelle, I know three other Michelles. I'm gonna call you Michelle 4" and she'll probably say, "No, I wanta be Michelle 1, I'm the best" and I'll retort with, "You know, at least you're fiesty, I'm gonna make you Michelle 3." Now throughout the night if she acts, needy and whiney and, she plain gets on my nerves, I'll demote her back down to the #4 slot and, call her Michelle 4 but, if she does everything I want her to do, then I'll promote her, probably to Michelle 2, never Michelle 1 (you know I don't wanta give her That much). Another great thing to do is, let's say you're out with a woman, maybe get her all excited about taking a fictitious vacation with you (now you've gotta communicate to her that it's fictitious through making it just outlandish and ridiculous and extravagant, maybe tell you're gonna take her to the Bahamas where you're gonna work as carnies, get her really excited about it, but all the while she knows that it's fictitious). And then say to her, "You know, you're a really cool girl, and that earns you 3 points, but you're gonna need to earn 15 points before I consider taking you on the trip" and throughout the night you'll make her do various things to, earn the 15 points so, she can come on the trip you're not gonna take her on. Another fun thing to do is, at a certain if you're out with a woman, take her hand and say to her, "You know you're a really cool girl and that earns you 3 points, but you're gonna need to earn 15 points to hold hands" and then push her hand away. Now all of these are, priceless because they set the metaframe, that you are the prize, the woman is trying to win over.