You make a good point. I should have put either. Women can be violent too.
Anyway for the guys who were wondering why I made the survey,
I had the idea that people who have had to resort to seduction methods to relate to women may have been emotionally wounded / have had an abusive relationship with their parents. I personally had a horrible relationship with my father, who I still think is evil for beating me and taking out his anger on someone who couldn't fight back in that way. I had a lot of emotional scars which led me into dyfunctional relationships or solitude, and eventually drove me to seek answers in such places as this, and this stuff with my father was probably worst.
Oh interesting, this page on child beating
http://www.nospank.net/n-f27.htm says that mothers were more likely to hit children than fathers, in a study. Hm.