I feel like a super AFC right now. Need Help to turn life around = i'm 23 years old. just go out of college but didn't do much with girls in college but now i'm starting to regret that. i tried to focus mostly on grades in school. and also cus i usually sucked around girls. They never seem interested and than i just stopped trying, especially after having a really bad experience with this one girl in college who i thought liked me, and she did (she told mutual friends that she liked me), but nothing ever happened and one time when i tried to kiss her while drunk she didn't want to and pushed me back, said i tried to rape her when all i did was try to kiss her (other people were there to back up my story) later on she ended up getting with my friend instead. She still wanted to stay friends but i couldn't stand her cus she strung me along and played me. This really messed me up bad, and was messing with my studies so i stopped trying to get with chicks and instead focused on school. Unfortunatelly for me even though i did well in school i can't land a job either.
I have very little to no game, am skinny but dont look bad, am awkward, and nervous around girls, never had a girlfriend and i hate to admit it but am a virgin. i need help. Do i have any chance/hope to turn my life around? I dont have a job right now, but am looking for something with my degree in finance. I feel like i picked the wrong degree because i'm not that social or outgoing. I also have anxiety issues and dont have a lot of confidence. I'm also not very social and have hard times interacting with groups of people somtimes. Part of that is why i'm having a hard time getting a job. Worried/Scared to death about interviewing, and i feel like i' dont have enough experience.
So basically i lack experience in all departments and i am starting to feel hopeless/useless. Been feeling more depressed lately. I'm a pretty smart guy, but i feel kinda lost. I've known about PUA and the game but never really believed it so i never tried. Now I want to get into it because i want to turn my life around. I want to be confident, work out and not be so skinny (makes me feel awkward), and start getting girls and find a job. My worry is do i still have a chance or is it too late?
so here i am. I need help badly. I have some questions that i hope you guys can help answer.
1) do i still have a chance/is there hope for me to turn my life around (prob a stupid question but i need to hear it)?
2) where do i start - what books should i read (please no bootcamps or seminars because i'm too broke from not having a job) ALso will this stuff help? Everytime i tried to read a self help book i just couldn't keep reading it after the first chapter. probably because A) I'm afraid of change B) some of these books just say is think positive and all your problems will go away...
3) how do i gain confidence
4) any tips of getting a job and doing well in interviews? need confidence here - what books should i read, will pua material help here?
5) where do i meet girls now that i'm out of college. best places for hookups?
Anyway i'll take all the help i can get. Also any words of encouragement and hope are really appreciated.
I have very little to no game, am skinny but dont look bad, am awkward, and nervous around girls, never had a girlfriend and i hate to admit it but am a virgin. i need help. Do i have any chance/hope to turn my life around? I dont have a job right now, but am looking for something with my degree in finance. I feel like i picked the wrong degree because i'm not that social or outgoing. I also have anxiety issues and dont have a lot of confidence. I'm also not very social and have hard times interacting with groups of people somtimes. Part of that is why i'm having a hard time getting a job. Worried/Scared to death about interviewing, and i feel like i' dont have enough experience.
So basically i lack experience in all departments and i am starting to feel hopeless/useless. Been feeling more depressed lately. I'm a pretty smart guy, but i feel kinda lost. I've known about PUA and the game but never really believed it so i never tried. Now I want to get into it because i want to turn my life around. I want to be confident, work out and not be so skinny (makes me feel awkward), and start getting girls and find a job. My worry is do i still have a chance or is it too late?
so here i am. I need help badly. I have some questions that i hope you guys can help answer.
1) do i still have a chance/is there hope for me to turn my life around (prob a stupid question but i need to hear it)?
2) where do i start - what books should i read (please no bootcamps or seminars because i'm too broke from not having a job) ALso will this stuff help? Everytime i tried to read a self help book i just couldn't keep reading it after the first chapter. probably because A) I'm afraid of change B) some of these books just say is think positive and all your problems will go away...
3) how do i gain confidence
4) any tips of getting a job and doing well in interviews? need confidence here - what books should i read, will pua material help here?
5) where do i meet girls now that i'm out of college. best places for hookups?
Anyway i'll take all the help i can get. Also any words of encouragement and hope are really appreciated.