So a few days ago I was heading home from downtown and got on the Skytrain. I was a little stoned, coming back from the weed cafe. I may have just been a little paranoid off the kush, but honestly I couldn't help but feel I was getting bad vibes from some of the women I passed by as I walked through the station.
One pair of females, clearly a little older (the MILF variety, if you will), passed by. I gave them a quick glance, but since I was feeling a little jittery and anxious, immediately looked away. It wasn't a cowardly, submissive darting of the eyes, but more a well-executed look to the side to save face, a little defense mechanism I've developed over the years to not outwardly seem like a p*ssy to girls in public. I wear a "mask" when I go out in public, a haughty, shoulders-out 'strong and silent type' composure to make up for my own insecurities and not become a walking target. As soon as I looked away and passed by their side, I immediately heard one of them say really loudly "My gaydar is going off", to which her girlfriend laughed.
As I got on the bus later, there were no seats left and it was packed up like sardines, so I was forced to take hold of the safety bar and stand by a couple of girls, fairly attractive and probably in their mid-twenties. Being high, I became really self-conscious and felt really awkward about whom I was standing around. At that moment, my hips were facing the girls, but my torso was off to the side towards the front of the bus. I could see the girls looking at me in my peripheral vision and hear them cracking jokes, so I thought maybe they were mocking me. I felt I was giving off really awkward vibes, so it sorta made sense at the time. I then told myself "You're just a little baked. They're probably not talking about you. Just quit thinking about it." So just to reassure myself, I shuffled around for a bit then walked about a seat down. I stood in the opposite direction, facing a group of elderly women on the opposite side of the bus. At the precise moment that I changed my position, I heard one of the chicks from before exclaim something along the lines of "hitting on the grandmas now eh?"
Honestly, what's up with b*tches like these? I was just minding my own business, not bothering anyone, but some females still feel like they have to put me down, even in public. It's rude and unwarranted. Do I give off bad vibes to women? Can they smell the v-card in my pocket, incongruence, and fear of girls from a mile away? In that sense, do I appear effeminate or weak to them, and therefore become an easy target? Is it because I wear an earring and have a boyish face?
On the other hand, I think I'm decently attractive and sort of have a "pretty boy" look to me... Maybe they're trying to offend me because I didn't show any signs of being attracted to them, but outwardly 'seem' like a player? I'm not trying to brag or anything, I just honestly want to know (And just for the record, I am no "alpha" male or "player". I get no play lol).
Perhaps my admittedly-haughty and aloof body language gives them the need to knock me down a notch like I'm some sort of arrogant douche? I'm just brainstorming possibilities here. I don't know. All I know is that this sh** is annoying.
I want to know if any of you guys have ever experienced women do this to you in public?
For example, say you're sitting on a bus across from a girl flashing you IOIs. You mind your own business, avoid eye contact, and don't engage. After all, you're busy, worrying about other things. You've got more important things to think about then some chick you've never met before but who might be interested in you. Then as she gets up from her seat at her stop, she gives you a rolling of the eyes or a dirty look just as she leaves the bus. This has also happened to me before, and it just baffles me.
Some attractive women, I believe, feel entitled to get attention or stares of awe from men wherever they go. And then when that one guy shows up and doesn't give two sh*ts about her and her pretty face, she automatically hates the guy or thinks "he must be gay". It reeks of insecurity. But I've seen it enough times that it p*sses me off.
Thoughts?
One pair of females, clearly a little older (the MILF variety, if you will), passed by. I gave them a quick glance, but since I was feeling a little jittery and anxious, immediately looked away. It wasn't a cowardly, submissive darting of the eyes, but more a well-executed look to the side to save face, a little defense mechanism I've developed over the years to not outwardly seem like a p*ssy to girls in public. I wear a "mask" when I go out in public, a haughty, shoulders-out 'strong and silent type' composure to make up for my own insecurities and not become a walking target. As soon as I looked away and passed by their side, I immediately heard one of them say really loudly "My gaydar is going off", to which her girlfriend laughed.
As I got on the bus later, there were no seats left and it was packed up like sardines, so I was forced to take hold of the safety bar and stand by a couple of girls, fairly attractive and probably in their mid-twenties. Being high, I became really self-conscious and felt really awkward about whom I was standing around. At that moment, my hips were facing the girls, but my torso was off to the side towards the front of the bus. I could see the girls looking at me in my peripheral vision and hear them cracking jokes, so I thought maybe they were mocking me. I felt I was giving off really awkward vibes, so it sorta made sense at the time. I then told myself "You're just a little baked. They're probably not talking about you. Just quit thinking about it." So just to reassure myself, I shuffled around for a bit then walked about a seat down. I stood in the opposite direction, facing a group of elderly women on the opposite side of the bus. At the precise moment that I changed my position, I heard one of the chicks from before exclaim something along the lines of "hitting on the grandmas now eh?"
Honestly, what's up with b*tches like these? I was just minding my own business, not bothering anyone, but some females still feel like they have to put me down, even in public. It's rude and unwarranted. Do I give off bad vibes to women? Can they smell the v-card in my pocket, incongruence, and fear of girls from a mile away? In that sense, do I appear effeminate or weak to them, and therefore become an easy target? Is it because I wear an earring and have a boyish face?
On the other hand, I think I'm decently attractive and sort of have a "pretty boy" look to me... Maybe they're trying to offend me because I didn't show any signs of being attracted to them, but outwardly 'seem' like a player? I'm not trying to brag or anything, I just honestly want to know (And just for the record, I am no "alpha" male or "player". I get no play lol).
Perhaps my admittedly-haughty and aloof body language gives them the need to knock me down a notch like I'm some sort of arrogant douche? I'm just brainstorming possibilities here. I don't know. All I know is that this sh** is annoying.
I want to know if any of you guys have ever experienced women do this to you in public?
For example, say you're sitting on a bus across from a girl flashing you IOIs. You mind your own business, avoid eye contact, and don't engage. After all, you're busy, worrying about other things. You've got more important things to think about then some chick you've never met before but who might be interested in you. Then as she gets up from her seat at her stop, she gives you a rolling of the eyes or a dirty look just as she leaves the bus. This has also happened to me before, and it just baffles me.
Some attractive women, I believe, feel entitled to get attention or stares of awe from men wherever they go. And then when that one guy shows up and doesn't give two sh*ts about her and her pretty face, she automatically hates the guy or thinks "he must be gay". It reeks of insecurity. But I've seen it enough times that it p*sses me off.
Thoughts?
