Step 1 - Know your weaknesses and your strong points.
Step 2 - Write down everything on a peice of paper what you need to work on. Examples; eye contact, kino, approaching, conversations ect.. Keep this peice of paper.
Step 3 - Read the Don Juan Bible and learn how to improve in those areas. Dont jam everything in to your head at once. Take it slow and work on 1 - 2 areas at a time.
Step 4 - After you learned what you can do to improve your weak area.
You must go out and put your knowledge to work.
Step 5 - After you put your new knowledge to the test. Think back to what you did. How did you do? What could you have done better and ect. What did you do right? Write it down. Look at it and come up with a new game plan.
Step 6 - PRACTICE PRACTICE AND MORE PRACTICE! Then, repeat the steps until you improved your weak spots.
If you want to be successfull you must find your weakness. Learn how to make your weakness a strong point and apply. If you arent out working on improving your weakness; you will always have that weakness.
Practice as much as you can and learn as much as you can. Dont get discourage because, change takes time. Stay focused and motivated.
Its late so, I hoped I made sense and hope it helps..