And I agree w/ Nick as well, he and I approach things differently, and I'm not familiar with some of the terminology in his post, but I know for a fact he is right.
Reacting to her BS, in the way 'we' discourage, is the reason for her behavior. She wants/expects you too, all other guys do, why not you?
The cliche: Men just don't understand women!
What a joke! Many men don't, I agree, but once you do, you'll see that IT IS WOMEN THAT DON'T UNDERSTAND MEN!
Women have a pre-conceived idealism of all men, men don't have this of women.
The reason women constantly complain that all men want is sex, is because that is almost all women think, talk, or focus on!!!!
It's a hint, you nice guys!!! THAT IS WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO SHOW, but you must learn how to show it, so she doesn't feel like a slut, that is what she hopes you can do.
Glad we agree on the previous topic Nick.