wakingup
Don Juan
Been casually seeing one girl for about 4-5 months now, about 2 times a week and she stays over about once a week. I truly enjoy her companionship and the sex is great, shes very giving and enthusiastic and wants to please me. I was seeing a couple other girls but they dropped off because I've been too busy and can't really balance multiple girls. She's met my family (I actually met her through my brother) and she had Thanksgiving with my family. Last night she texts me asking if we are in a committed relationship, that she assumed we were, but wanted to clarify. I told her I'm happy to talk in person when we see each other in a couple days.
My gut tells me that I should keep her around, my heart is not totally wrapped up in her. I'm looking for advice on defining the relationship. My thoughts are to tell her that I like how things are going, that I'm not sleeping with anyone else, and that I'd like to continue as we have been, and that I want to see where it goes.
Please throw any advice or thoughts at me.
My gut tells me that I should keep her around, my heart is not totally wrapped up in her. I'm looking for advice on defining the relationship. My thoughts are to tell her that I like how things are going, that I'm not sleeping with anyone else, and that I'd like to continue as we have been, and that I want to see where it goes.
Please throw any advice or thoughts at me.