Thank you sir. It took thirty three years, many heart aches, and sexual experiences with all sorts of crazy women in the last sixteen years, to finally understand what is really going on.jophil28 said:THis is one of your best, Falcon.
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Thank you sir. It took thirty three years, many heart aches, and sexual experiences with all sorts of crazy women in the last sixteen years, to finally understand what is really going on.jophil28 said:THis is one of your best, Falcon.
While I find Falcon25 posts very insightful, I find that he is excusing this chicks behavior.Falcon25 said:This guy just doesn't get it. He is trying to rationalize what went wrong. He doesn't understand the laws of attraction and how a woman falls in love with a man. It's not because "he becomes a good guy" or "stops being a player", none of those things makes a woman's **** tingle. IT'S CHALLENGE. If she doesn't have to work to fall in love with you, IT'S OVER. She will move on. There is NOTHING wrong with this girl's actions. If I was a girl, I would have dumped him too. He was head over heels in THREE MONTHS. Come on fellas, stop trying to rationalize this. It's over. He needs to learn to be a CHALLENGE. THESE ARE NOT GAMES, THIS IS WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR. Even if you are sixty years old, you still have to display challenge for a woman.
This girl's actions are no different than any woman, anywhere in the world. If you are a weak man, they will take advantage of the situation and suck your blood dry. She's a great girl. She even loves being spanked and hair pulled. Too bad the OP didn't spank and pull her hair outside of the bedroom. He needed to be aggressive and selfish. She wants to be put in place. You don't need to be rich to do that (though it's much, much, easier). He was the girl in the relationship after THREE MONTHS.
THE OP KEEPS SAYING "I GUESS AT THIS AGE, I STILL GOTTA PLAY GAMES."
These are not "games", these are qualities that confident, secure, succesfull men have naturally. You can't fake it. It comes from deep within the soul. Not one of my friends, or I, would ever have a girl move in after 30 days of dating. We like our privacy and freedom too much to do it that early. 80 percent of the guys out there can bang a hot girl, but can they keep em? That's where natural confidence comes in.
Don't think you are special for scoring a hot girl, or getting phone numbers, or dates. I can do that by just walking outside and talking to them. It's not that hard to get laid if you are decent looking and have a personality.
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But it also shows that OP's game was weak.Jamo said:As much as the OP made mistakes, he was wasting his time in trying to have any sort of LTR with this piece of work. She proved herself beyond doubt that she is a user when she accepted personal invitations by her boss.
f283000 said:When that happens you will hear from women "i'm sorry i have a boyfriend" as a reply to lesser males than her current mate. She will react with disgust to flirtation from other males, will ignore other males, will not give signals to other males. To her she has already found a good thing and is now off limits unless a more stronger alpha male comes along.
But you tried to turn a hoe into a housewife. You obviously haven't been 'in the game" enough to know that a hoe is going to be a hoe, regardless of that she says or how good the sex is or how much education she has, or you couldn't tell she was a hoe in the first place. But she's a hoe.Sandow said:Dude I know the game, I've been f*cking girls for the last ten years. How do you think i got this girl. This is the first time at an attempted relationship with my own place. This is all new to me, rather than the hit it and quit it lifestyle that I was acustomed to.
Screening: you ****ed her too easilySandow said:True, but in all honesty, she actually may have done more for me than what I did for her. If this girl never did anything, I would have dumped her a long time ago. But check my earlier post: she cooked for me, she cleaned my apt for me, she bought me giants gear when they won the nl pennant and the world series...along with the world series hat. She bought me handful of gifts when she went to Vegas to visit her family. She bough dinner at expensive restaurants. Shall I keep going?? Ok, she washed my car consecutively, and got my oil changed because I told her too. She picked me up from work often, she bought alchohol many times, even bought me my favorite wine, which wasn't cheap. She bought the nutcracker tickets which are $50 a piece. So I didn't do any screening?? Heck, I have never had a girl do so much in such a short period of time....ever!
So fvckin true.Falcon25 said:Sandow,
You can be a caring, compassionate, nice, and all around good guy with a woman you like.
Those are good things.
But, you NEVER VERBALIZE your feelings. You never jump the gun. Always wait till she falls for you. Protect your heart. Use the same excuse they use on us "I was hurt in the past, so I am not wearing my heart on my sleeve, I need to slow down." This makes their head spin. They're like, WTF? "I'm hot! How can this guy not fall for me, everyone else has!". Or she will walk away, knowing she can't use you. That you are armor plated. This will weed out the satanic ones.
I need you to take all emotion out of this next time. Remember, success comes when a woman falls in love with you, not with sex. So, take it SLOW. TIME is the way to a woman's heart. If you mind fuvk her, than her body, soul, and everything else becomes YOURS. No other man, not even her family, can sway her love for you. THAT IS HOW STRONG A WOMAN'S LOVE IS. But, it is the hardest thing in the world to capture.
Too much too soon, and it's over. Protect your heart, investments, and everything else. She could be a bitcvh. She could be a golddigger, who knows? But, they all want the same thing. TO WORK FOR A MAN'S HEART.
God's speed.
Or one who also shut me down so quickly?Sandow said:Heck, I have never had a girl do so much in such a short period of time..
I feel your pain bro. I think a lot of us have that one girl that wakes us upZunder said:Basically, with one particular woman this year, I fvcked it up completely by being too available too nice too apologetic. She lost all respect for me...I got oneitis badly. I am really coming out of it now. It has been one of the harshest lessons of my life because i haven't fallen for a girl that deeply for a long long long time.
That is not possible, your a human not robot. So you think you can be void of emotional attachment while a woman falls in love with you, so once you have her "love" you then can allow yourself to feel something? Right.Falcon25 said:Sandow,
You can be a caring, compassionate, nice, and all around good guy with a woman you like.
Those are good things.
But, you NEVER VERBALIZE your feelings. You never jump the gun. Always wait till she falls for you. Protect your heart. Use the same excuse they use on us "I was hurt in the past, so I am not wearing my heart on my sleeve, I need to slow down." This makes their head spin. They're like, WTF? "I'm hot! How can this guy not fall for me, everyone else has!". Or she will walk away, knowing she can't use you. That you are armor plated. This will weed out the satanic ones.
I need you to take all emotion out of this next time. Remember, success comes when a woman falls in love with you, not with sex. So, take it SLOW. TIME is the way to a woman's heart. If you mind fuvk her, than her body, soul, and everything else becomes YOURS. No other man, not even her family, can sway her love for you. THAT IS HOW STRONG A WOMAN'S LOVE IS. But, it is the hardest thing in the world to capture.
Too much too soon, and it's over. Protect your heart, investments, and everything else. She could be a bitcvh. She could be a golddigger, who knows? But, they all want the same thing. TO WORK FOR A MAN'S HEART.
God's speed.
Two points: So what happened to all these women that loved you?frivolousz21 said:That is not possible, your a human not robot. So you think you can be void of emotional attachment while a woman falls in love with you, so once you have her "love" you then can allow yourself to feel something? Right.
I agree that is an extremely powerful thing.
but I completely disagree that is the hardest thing in the world to capture. That is hyperbole and way over the top. I have had many women fall in love with me and would walk threw fire for me. I don't recall it being so had to obtain. I recall the hardest thing was for me to stop self destructing because my father abandon me and I was massively insecure but not insecure in getting a women to love me.
Four women in my life I have let in far enough and long enough to love me like that. All of them to this day would say I was or am the most powerful love they have ever had.
I never had to play coy or act like I didn't care. I think that is bullshyt just completely bogus.
I get being confident, assertive, passionate, driven and all that among things to be attractive. Also being intelligent helps, having things in common helps, same ideals and ****.
Mostly the women you are with makes all the difference.
I have had women who wanted my sex and ****ed me over and it hurts, I got used twice by women older then me who played me.
I was also AFC for a time and smothered girls, was to nice, not assertive enough and got hurt.
but you know, that doesn't mean I have go be some robot militant dude.
1. That means I needed to choose higher character women.
2. Self Improve. We all know this.
3. I am extremely passionate and compassionate. Basically I wear my heart on my sleeve. And it has been by far the largest attraction for women. Dozens of women have told me the passion in my voice makes them wet and there heart flutter whatever that means.
maybe things have just worked out better for me naturally and I am skewed. These tricks and ways seem ridiculous to me. I don't think most guys walk around like little *****es, maybe they do. But I see dudes who have no idea what game is and they are confident in there little lives and have met women who love them for what they are.
Maybe we are a lot closer then it seems with our ideas. I just think there are way to many generalizations with this.
Sandow said:True, but in all honesty, she actually may have done more for me than what I did for her. If this girl never did anything, I would have dumped her a long time ago. But check my earlier post: she cooked for me, she cleaned my apt for me, she bought me giants gear when they won the nl pennant and the world series...along with the world series hat. She bought me handful of gifts when she went to Vegas to visit her family. She bough dinner at expensive restaurants. Shall I keep going?? Ok, she washed my car consecutively, and got my oil changed because I told her too. She picked me up from work often, she bought alchohol many times, even bought me my favorite wine, which wasn't cheap. She bought the nutcracker tickets which are $50 a piece. So I didn't do any screening?? Heck, I have never had a girl do so much in such a short period of time....ever!
She did all this when she had her previous job as a server, and she was still living at her best friends house. During the relationship she was looking for a new place, and mentioned a few times that she wanted to get a place together (Couldn't tell if she was serious or not, but she said it). Thank god we didn't do that.Kailex said:Did she buy all of these things for you while she was "homeless" and "jobless"?
I'm morbidly curious about that.