No matter how experienced you are, a chick emasculating you one way or the other still stingsI don't agree with this. This is the type of shjt that breaks men who haven't learned to separate sexual bonding and "love" permanently.
And the more you are attached to her, the more it stings
In the OP example, he does bf/gf stuff and then he is like “ ywah, I work 200 hours a week, and do not have time to spin plates” . Even though he thinks he got this under control and expects her to leave, you think that this experience will not sting him a lot?
His hamster is already backwords rationalizing his behavior and finds excuses on why this is ok, which means that he is almost entirely hooked in the whole thing
No matter how rational we think we are, humans are mostly not rationale and they can lose it in a snip of a second