Have been seeing an otherwise great girl who checks all the other boxes. Solid HB 8 as well. Has a masters degree, teaches autistic teenagers and buys me stuff constantly even though i make much more money than her. Says she is head over heels in love with me blah blah. I am the 5th guy she has ever been with. Not ideal but not terrible either. She doesn't party, go out or sleep around and is always very positive and bubbly acting.
However, she has this weird fascination with serial killers and says she wrote her thesis paper on a famous one from the 1800s. Case in point, she watches that netflix show "the serpent" constantly.
I watched a few episodes with her out of curiosity because she always remarks at how interesting the main character is. I found him to be a disgusting vile character but has all the classic dark triad traits so i can see why the opposite sex would find him attractive in some way. But...
She also likes to constantly remark that a lot of serial killers are amazing because they were often sexually abused as children and are geniuses that so in her words "incredibly intelligent and can make other people do what they want them to do."
Any ways....i was taking her somewhat serious at first but i think this one thing is just too much of a red flag and turn off to me. Am going to start dating other girls and seeing her less often. Another thing that annoys me about her is her favorite music is depressing overly hard rock groups from the 90s. Like just ****ty depressing loud borderline satanic sounding grunge music. To her credit she likes a a wide range of music though but just like the serial killer thing that is what she is most attracted to.
Who else this would be a deal breaker for on here? Tell me i am not crazy ha. Looks wise she is stunning. Looks just like the actress Selma Hayack in her prime younger years. At the very best case scenario ...besides the sex we have almost zero in common interest wise. The more time that i spend with her, talking to her is incredibly draining feeling and gives me a headache. Guess ill just start seeing other girls on the side and tell her to relax with all the love bombing stuff and we should slow down.
However, she has this weird fascination with serial killers and says she wrote her thesis paper on a famous one from the 1800s. Case in point, she watches that netflix show "the serpent" constantly.
I watched a few episodes with her out of curiosity because she always remarks at how interesting the main character is. I found him to be a disgusting vile character but has all the classic dark triad traits so i can see why the opposite sex would find him attractive in some way. But...
She also likes to constantly remark that a lot of serial killers are amazing because they were often sexually abused as children and are geniuses that so in her words "incredibly intelligent and can make other people do what they want them to do."
Any ways....i was taking her somewhat serious at first but i think this one thing is just too much of a red flag and turn off to me. Am going to start dating other girls and seeing her less often. Another thing that annoys me about her is her favorite music is depressing overly hard rock groups from the 90s. Like just ****ty depressing loud borderline satanic sounding grunge music. To her credit she likes a a wide range of music though but just like the serial killer thing that is what she is most attracted to.
Who else this would be a deal breaker for on here? Tell me i am not crazy ha. Looks wise she is stunning. Looks just like the actress Selma Hayack in her prime younger years. At the very best case scenario ...besides the sex we have almost zero in common interest wise. The more time that i spend with her, talking to her is incredibly draining feeling and gives me a headache. Guess ill just start seeing other girls on the side and tell her to relax with all the love bombing stuff and we should slow down.
