Ok, I've encountered this often enough over the past few months that I need to get straight what constitutes normal.
My belief system about sexual order as it were went something like
Dancing / Gridning and making out being on a par.
Feeling up
Handjob
Oral Sex
Sex
I've encountered a good few women for whom a blowj*b is a BIG deal. "I don't know you that well". Full sex though for the same women is not that big a deal.
I've encountered another girl who I grinded on in a club for like half an hour. Tried to kiss her twice and she backed off. Started telling me afterwards that she didn't make out with guys in a club as it was slutty. Me dancing with my c**k against her ass for half an hour is so much less than making out apparently
The obvious answer will be that it depends on the girl. Fair enough but I've had 4 women express a belief that a blow job was something more serious than having sex. That at least must be something of a rule.
My belief system about sexual order as it were went something like
Dancing / Gridning and making out being on a par.
Feeling up
Handjob
Oral Sex
Sex
I've encountered a good few women for whom a blowj*b is a BIG deal. "I don't know you that well". Full sex though for the same women is not that big a deal.
I've encountered another girl who I grinded on in a club for like half an hour. Tried to kiss her twice and she backed off. Started telling me afterwards that she didn't make out with guys in a club as it was slutty. Me dancing with my c**k against her ass for half an hour is so much less than making out apparently
The obvious answer will be that it depends on the girl. Fair enough but I've had 4 women express a belief that a blow job was something more serious than having sex. That at least must be something of a rule.