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Master Don Juan
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One of the important lessons of becoming a real man in my opinion is to make the 'best decision' you can at the time.
Your BEST is going to vary day by day. For example, doing your best yesterday while you were down with a severe flu is going to be very different then next Monday when you are recovered and well. So doing your BEST is going to be a moving variable, depending on your psychological and physiological state of mind.
Becoming a REAL man, is learning to make the best decision at any time in your life, and DOING your best. Never look back and regret, if you know you DID YOUR BEST at that moment in time (although you look back and you know you would do better NOW, but that is not the point).
Own up to your action and be responsible. Learn from your decision and now live your PRESENT with the best decision you can make and you can be.
Be a good father to your daughter. Your wife is history. Leave the Oneitis behind. Once you have her again, you very well may cheat again 10 years down the line. Something was missing between you and her for that to happen in the first place.
With respect,
Exodus
Your BEST is going to vary day by day. For example, doing your best yesterday while you were down with a severe flu is going to be very different then next Monday when you are recovered and well. So doing your BEST is going to be a moving variable, depending on your psychological and physiological state of mind.
Becoming a REAL man, is learning to make the best decision at any time in your life, and DOING your best. Never look back and regret, if you know you DID YOUR BEST at that moment in time (although you look back and you know you would do better NOW, but that is not the point).
Own up to your action and be responsible. Learn from your decision and now live your PRESENT with the best decision you can make and you can be.
Be a good father to your daughter. Your wife is history. Leave the Oneitis behind. Once you have her again, you very well may cheat again 10 years down the line. Something was missing between you and her for that to happen in the first place.
With respect,
Exodus