In2theGame said:
I dont think you were friend zoned....YET. You still had an opening to bang her good. What women say and do can be total opposite. This is how im reading this...
What she Said: "I met someone in Ecuador. If you're still up for hanging out and chillin as friends. Let me know"
What she may be thinking: "I met someone in Ecuador. If you're still up for hanging out and chillin as friends. Let me know,....I want to see if I'm missing out on something before i officially friend zone you"
I'm willing to bet that if you did go out with her and played your cards on point... she will forget that dude. Some drinks... Heavy flirting in the right ways and pushing the right buttons.... IMO would have had her bent over in front of you and you could of pulled her hair and slap her ass really hard! "You fvcking like that!?" She will be dripping and begging to be with you.
Repped.
This is exactly what I was thinking. Kind of like ASD, only ACD (anti-cheating defense). "I
said I just wanted to be friends." (he's in Ecuador, so...no self-reflection needed for banging this crazy bird)
Also though, it's her get out of jail free card. She can play this one any way she wants. She rules. You're there as a friend, who's interested in her, and she gets to decide if she wants to turn it into something else. If you try to make a move, and she's not interested: "whoa, I said I'm seeing someone." Otherwise, if she's interested.....well, you're a sure thing.
Obviously she's holding all the cards, and yes, you would have to play your $hitty hand to a T. But, you could do it. Go under the guise of: "you know, I was planning on staying home and blah blah, but I could go for a drink, lets just hang out"
I'd say go for it. A little experimentation, see what happens.