Keep in mind that the kid is only 9 years old. The worst - puberty - has yet to come. The fact that he's a grade A student at age 9 says very little about how he will fare once he gets flooded with testosterone. Granted, your influence will probably be much better than the one he'd otherwise be subject to... but he has been raised in a complicated household, and how those experiences will push through when he is going through puberty...
I'm too young to really give out advice here, but it seems like a good idea not to adopt him straight away... on the one hand it would really make you commit to him if you did. On the other hand, it would really make you commit to him if you did...............
I'm too young to really give out advice here, but it seems like a good idea not to adopt him straight away... on the one hand it would really make you commit to him if you did. On the other hand, it would really make you commit to him if you did...............