SoldMySoul
Master Don Juan
My title is certainly not my own created saying, but it speakes volumes of how you should be living your life. It is perfect for the men here that struggle with women and relationships.
When I became a member here in 2006, I was going through so many changes. Just got my divorce and my brother and I were starting a business that cost me much hence how I came up with my screen name SOLDMYSOUL[./B]
It has been quite awhile since visiting here and decided to visit today to share my experience and knowledge after finally just letting go! The secret that some guys seek on here and everywhere is easy. I am going to share it with it you. The pros here already know it, but this is for those still struggling.
Since my last visit, I have been married for about a year and been in a pretty decent job that pays well enough and my wife makes a nice living as well.
Now for the secret!!!!!!!! All one has to do is let go and things start happening. I don't mean in the sense of staying on your a$$ and doing nothing. I mean stop worrying and concerning yourself with women so much!
Your first priority MUST BE YOU! Sounds easy, does it not? Once you master that love for yourself then things fall right into place. No I don't mean a selfish, self centered love. I mean exactly what I say You are first and love yourself over any woman!
Once you stop making a woman's world your entire world, YOUR WORLD becomes meaningful and special to you. Thus making your world worth a deserving woman being in it. If you are always trying to force yourself into a woman's world, you will lose yourself in her world. Once you are sucked into her world and do not have your own, she will NOT want you there.
Then you deal with heartache and pain that you YOURSELF helped create! By remaining a challenege does not mean continue being a $ h i t h e a d to her. It simply means you maintain the frame all day everyday. It means you do not put her on that dreaded pedestal. It means DO NOT be the AFC, supplicating fool you have been in the past. Doesn't mean be a nice guy. It means exactly this: BE A GOOD GUY!
Like all the legendary posters here have posted in the past: "As men, the strongest thing we have in our arsenal is having the power to WALK AWAY."
Hey, you!!!!! YES YOU...... When it comes to women, PLAY STUPID GAMES... WIN STUPID PRIZES.
When I became a member here in 2006, I was going through so many changes. Just got my divorce and my brother and I were starting a business that cost me much hence how I came up with my screen name SOLDMYSOUL[./B]
It has been quite awhile since visiting here and decided to visit today to share my experience and knowledge after finally just letting go! The secret that some guys seek on here and everywhere is easy. I am going to share it with it you. The pros here already know it, but this is for those still struggling.
Since my last visit, I have been married for about a year and been in a pretty decent job that pays well enough and my wife makes a nice living as well.
Now for the secret!!!!!!!! All one has to do is let go and things start happening. I don't mean in the sense of staying on your a$$ and doing nothing. I mean stop worrying and concerning yourself with women so much!
Your first priority MUST BE YOU! Sounds easy, does it not? Once you master that love for yourself then things fall right into place. No I don't mean a selfish, self centered love. I mean exactly what I say You are first and love yourself over any woman!
Once you stop making a woman's world your entire world, YOUR WORLD becomes meaningful and special to you. Thus making your world worth a deserving woman being in it. If you are always trying to force yourself into a woman's world, you will lose yourself in her world. Once you are sucked into her world and do not have your own, she will NOT want you there.
Then you deal with heartache and pain that you YOURSELF helped create! By remaining a challenege does not mean continue being a $ h i t h e a d to her. It simply means you maintain the frame all day everyday. It means you do not put her on that dreaded pedestal. It means DO NOT be the AFC, supplicating fool you have been in the past. Doesn't mean be a nice guy. It means exactly this: BE A GOOD GUY!
Like all the legendary posters here have posted in the past: "As men, the strongest thing we have in our arsenal is having the power to WALK AWAY."
Hey, you!!!!! YES YOU...... When it comes to women, PLAY STUPID GAMES... WIN STUPID PRIZES.