flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
I've been with the same girl for more than 2 years and broke up 3 weeks ago, so i got really used to that particular girl, to the point where i was getting boners all the time when i was with her.. in the bus if she touched my leg, while kissing, etc. and the sex was great all the time.
Now, i just met a new girl and spent the night at her place 2 days ago. Things got hot, we started undressing while making out, she was super passionate, i was passionate too, but i just couldn't get hard at all. We had to stop after a while, after i let her know that i just couldnt get it up. I told her that it's actually been like that every time when on the first night with the other girls i have slept with in the past, and that i should be okay next time, which will be this upcoming weekend.
I dunno, maybe it's a bit of stress coupled with performance anxiety, but i dont like this at all. It makes me feel less of a man. I was sooo concentrated on my d!ck being soft that i couldnt concentrate on the positive feelings i should have felt. I was not enjoying myself, because i was obsessed with getting hard, which was not happening at all. I'm sure next time it will work, for i've been in this situation before, but damn.. i dont wanna make this kinda first impression on any girl..
What do you guys make of this?
I know most guys would be super turned on when with a new girl for the first time, and it makes sense! Me, it's like, i need to get used to the girl first, get used to her style, become more relaxed, and then all is great!
I'd appreciate some feedback guys. Thanks!
Now, i just met a new girl and spent the night at her place 2 days ago. Things got hot, we started undressing while making out, she was super passionate, i was passionate too, but i just couldn't get hard at all. We had to stop after a while, after i let her know that i just couldnt get it up. I told her that it's actually been like that every time when on the first night with the other girls i have slept with in the past, and that i should be okay next time, which will be this upcoming weekend.
I dunno, maybe it's a bit of stress coupled with performance anxiety, but i dont like this at all. It makes me feel less of a man. I was sooo concentrated on my d!ck being soft that i couldnt concentrate on the positive feelings i should have felt. I was not enjoying myself, because i was obsessed with getting hard, which was not happening at all. I'm sure next time it will work, for i've been in this situation before, but damn.. i dont wanna make this kinda first impression on any girl..
What do you guys make of this?
I know most guys would be super turned on when with a new girl for the first time, and it makes sense! Me, it's like, i need to get used to the girl first, get used to her style, become more relaxed, and then all is great!
I'd appreciate some feedback guys. Thanks!