This is something that not enough men do, and when I've done it you just watch the ladies literally swoon in front of you.
So you're on the date at a restaurant, and you get the menu. Eventually you figure out what you want, so ask her what she wants too. She'll tell you.
Then, when the server comes back to take your order, immediately take charge before she gets a chance to tell the server her selection:
"She'll have the pepper steak, medium rare".
Don't forget how it's supposed to be cooked. Medium is the general way for burgers, and a medium rare steak is excellent.
Then order for yourself.
So you're on the date at a restaurant, and you get the menu. Eventually you figure out what you want, so ask her what she wants too. She'll tell you.
Then, when the server comes back to take your order, immediately take charge before she gets a chance to tell the server her selection:
"She'll have the pepper steak, medium rare".
Don't forget how it's supposed to be cooked. Medium is the general way for burgers, and a medium rare steak is excellent.
Then order for yourself.