I've had more experience in online dating that I care to admit...in my travels I have come across every kind of girl imaginable. Some I've become good friends with, others were one and done...some lasted weeks, months. I've rejected a few here and there, but most times it's been them giving me the ax.
Anyway, I've compiled a list of things that to me qualify a girl as a non starter. When you see mention of any of these character traits...be careful
1. The wandering nomad "I'm originally from Georgia, currently situated in Brooklyn, have lived in 5 different countries in the past 4 years. Have tucked in ethiopian orphans, fed camels in egypt, scaled the himalayas, prayed at indian weddings, blah blah blah"
These types are thoroughly rootless and are tied to nothing. They sometimes get on a relationship kick because all of their friends are in long term relationships, getting married, or already have kids...but ultimately fear getting tied to a man will crush their gypsy spirit. These girls are heartless, soulless. Everything is done on a whim. One fine day it'll be time to "move on", ditch YOU, and spend every last remaining penny on a 2 month trip to Costa Rica.
2. The lifelong student I'm currently finishing my 2nd doctorate in advance neurophysical dingleberry study...and oh year I'm 29, make no money, and have a mountain of debt."
Nothing wrong with getting an education, but these girls just get psychotically obsessed with something and don't know when to let up. Who needs a girl who's still buries her nose on a book on Friday nights when she should be out partying with you. These girls also absolutely no clue as to what's going on in the world outside their deranged obsession. Did the Mets win last night? She doesn't know...studying. Hey did you see that movie? Huh what movie? Did you hear about that congressman who tweeted his ****? What's a congressman? Sorry I don't know I was in the lab playing with goo in petri dishes.
3. The athlete hanging on to glory days I used to be a D1 lacrosse player...I still play whenever I get a chance in pick up adult rec leagues
She's 31 years old and will likely blow off dates with you to drive 4 hours to Delaware to waste her weekend playing a game with girls up to a decade younger (1/3rd of which are lesbos) where she will earn no money and gain no notoriety. She is already married...to her sport.
4. The religious zealot god is my homeboy
This one is just a shame...seemingly normal profile, likely an attractive girl who seems like she has it all together. And then you find out that her life is ultimately dedicated to serving some imaginary bearded sky grandpa that her parents brainwashed her into believing exists. Do not take these on as a reclamation project...don't waste your time trying to reprogram
5.The demander "My man must be..."
These girls are usually spoiled beyond belief, are almost always average or slightly above average looks but were brough up thinking they were Angelina Jolie. Gigantic egos and a laundry list of demans for their dates "must be 6'2, tall dark and handsome, good job, 150k+ preferred etc" nothing is ever good enough for them, massive *****es...a total non starter
Anyway, I've compiled a list of things that to me qualify a girl as a non starter. When you see mention of any of these character traits...be careful
1. The wandering nomad "I'm originally from Georgia, currently situated in Brooklyn, have lived in 5 different countries in the past 4 years. Have tucked in ethiopian orphans, fed camels in egypt, scaled the himalayas, prayed at indian weddings, blah blah blah"
These types are thoroughly rootless and are tied to nothing. They sometimes get on a relationship kick because all of their friends are in long term relationships, getting married, or already have kids...but ultimately fear getting tied to a man will crush their gypsy spirit. These girls are heartless, soulless. Everything is done on a whim. One fine day it'll be time to "move on", ditch YOU, and spend every last remaining penny on a 2 month trip to Costa Rica.
2. The lifelong student I'm currently finishing my 2nd doctorate in advance neurophysical dingleberry study...and oh year I'm 29, make no money, and have a mountain of debt."
Nothing wrong with getting an education, but these girls just get psychotically obsessed with something and don't know when to let up. Who needs a girl who's still buries her nose on a book on Friday nights when she should be out partying with you. These girls also absolutely no clue as to what's going on in the world outside their deranged obsession. Did the Mets win last night? She doesn't know...studying. Hey did you see that movie? Huh what movie? Did you hear about that congressman who tweeted his ****? What's a congressman? Sorry I don't know I was in the lab playing with goo in petri dishes.
3. The athlete hanging on to glory days I used to be a D1 lacrosse player...I still play whenever I get a chance in pick up adult rec leagues
She's 31 years old and will likely blow off dates with you to drive 4 hours to Delaware to waste her weekend playing a game with girls up to a decade younger (1/3rd of which are lesbos) where she will earn no money and gain no notoriety. She is already married...to her sport.
4. The religious zealot god is my homeboy
This one is just a shame...seemingly normal profile, likely an attractive girl who seems like she has it all together. And then you find out that her life is ultimately dedicated to serving some imaginary bearded sky grandpa that her parents brainwashed her into believing exists. Do not take these on as a reclamation project...don't waste your time trying to reprogram
5.The demander "My man must be..."
These girls are usually spoiled beyond belief, are almost always average or slightly above average looks but were brough up thinking they were Angelina Jolie. Gigantic egos and a laundry list of demans for their dates "must be 6'2, tall dark and handsome, good job, 150k+ preferred etc" nothing is ever good enough for them, massive *****es...a total non starter
