We all hear stuff about the nice guy finishing last, and all that stuff. Now I have a question about nice girls.
I went out last night with 3 girls. One I met last week, and 2 of her friends. I just moved, am in a new state and don't know any of them. So the first time I met the other 2 was last night.
I noticed that as everyone got to talking I noticed one of her friends was really upset with the male population, and then said I need a nice guy as a boyfriend. Haven't found one yet. Last one was a real jerk and played nice but I caught on.
So my question is; most people here say don't be a nice guy, and that girls don't like nice guys. What's the plan with a female who truly is a nice girl?
If you try NOT to play a nice guy when you met a girl the opposite, and it works, I say good.
So what's the rule of thumb for a nice girl? One who says I wish a guy would open the door for me sometimes, or buy me flowers out of the blue. No one ever has? Not that she wants it all, just cause she has never been treated in a nice way.
There has to be some happy medium or some tips you can give me. I want to pursue one of them, and I don't want to mess it up.
After I met one of them last night I was like..... Hmmm total opposite of the last gf, and total opposite of what I was planning on.
Thanks for the help fellas. And if there are any girls out there like this, tell me what you think.
I went out last night with 3 girls. One I met last week, and 2 of her friends. I just moved, am in a new state and don't know any of them. So the first time I met the other 2 was last night.
I noticed that as everyone got to talking I noticed one of her friends was really upset with the male population, and then said I need a nice guy as a boyfriend. Haven't found one yet. Last one was a real jerk and played nice but I caught on.
So my question is; most people here say don't be a nice guy, and that girls don't like nice guys. What's the plan with a female who truly is a nice girl?
If you try NOT to play a nice guy when you met a girl the opposite, and it works, I say good.
So what's the rule of thumb for a nice girl? One who says I wish a guy would open the door for me sometimes, or buy me flowers out of the blue. No one ever has? Not that she wants it all, just cause she has never been treated in a nice way.
There has to be some happy medium or some tips you can give me. I want to pursue one of them, and I don't want to mess it up.
After I met one of them last night I was like..... Hmmm total opposite of the last gf, and total opposite of what I was planning on.
Thanks for the help fellas. And if there are any girls out there like this, tell me what you think.