backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I was sitting at work, drifting as I normally do on Fridays and I thought about the experience I had at a local club I went to last night.
First of all, know that I for all intents and purposes, hate clubs... They make no sense. Girls know that guys want them, but go simply to stroke their egos to see how many guys they can reject, and if you do get a girl interested, she is more than likely drunk, etc. BUT, I am a social person and this was the place to be on Thursday nights, so I went.
Every time I go out, I always get compliments, such as you are so well dressed, you are very good looking (which I am
) etc, but I never get girls, besides these that compliment me, interested in me (I have a general rule of thumb that I won't talk to a girl that approaches me, simply because if she is that desperate where she is approaching men and not the other way around, something is wrong with her that I don't want apart of).
Then on the way home, it hit me like a ton of bricks.... I AM TOO GOOD LOOKING.
I intimidate women... it's hard to say that because I mean... it's you, but I can't come up with any other conclusion.
Now don’t' get me wrong, I talk to women, I have 3 that I see on a constant basis (one is a 7, one is around a 7.5 and one is easily an 8.5 and I was messing around with a girl I would consider an 8.5-9 before she started flaking out on me), but it's frustrating when you walk into a club, or a bar or a social setting and you honestly feel that you are the best dressed, best looking guy there and no one gives you any signals.
This one girl I talk to, the one I consider to be a 7.5 is a waitress at a popular bar that I go to. Around 2 weeks ago me and my friends went in there to play pool and this girl called me after she got off and said that the waitresses were literally fighting over who could wait on us. She then went on to say "there isn't waitresses up here that doesn't think you are too sexy" (which makes her all the luckier at the end of the night). I found that surprising, simply because when you think about that happening, you expect... more I guess.
What I am getting to is that, I know see how beautiful women feel on a constant basis. They get dressed up, go to the club or bar, they get compliments but hardly ever has someone actually try to talk to them and they get frustrated when they see girls who are not anywhere near as good looking get men... It's because the men automatically assume that the woman that is beautiful is "out of their league". My best friend, who happens to be a gorgeous 9.5 redhead, became my best friend over time because 3 years ago, I wouldn’t even let the thought of "someone that beautiful" being with me. When I saw that she actually was attracted to me, it was too late and we were friends, and still are to this day. I wouldn't trade it for the world, but you just never know could have happened if I had balls at the time.
First of all, know that I for all intents and purposes, hate clubs... They make no sense. Girls know that guys want them, but go simply to stroke their egos to see how many guys they can reject, and if you do get a girl interested, she is more than likely drunk, etc. BUT, I am a social person and this was the place to be on Thursday nights, so I went.
Every time I go out, I always get compliments, such as you are so well dressed, you are very good looking (which I am
) etc, but I never get girls, besides these that compliment me, interested in me (I have a general rule of thumb that I won't talk to a girl that approaches me, simply because if she is that desperate where she is approaching men and not the other way around, something is wrong with her that I don't want apart of).Then on the way home, it hit me like a ton of bricks.... I AM TOO GOOD LOOKING.
I intimidate women... it's hard to say that because I mean... it's you, but I can't come up with any other conclusion.
Now don’t' get me wrong, I talk to women, I have 3 that I see on a constant basis (one is a 7, one is around a 7.5 and one is easily an 8.5 and I was messing around with a girl I would consider an 8.5-9 before she started flaking out on me), but it's frustrating when you walk into a club, or a bar or a social setting and you honestly feel that you are the best dressed, best looking guy there and no one gives you any signals.
This one girl I talk to, the one I consider to be a 7.5 is a waitress at a popular bar that I go to. Around 2 weeks ago me and my friends went in there to play pool and this girl called me after she got off and said that the waitresses were literally fighting over who could wait on us. She then went on to say "there isn't waitresses up here that doesn't think you are too sexy" (which makes her all the luckier at the end of the night
). I found that surprising, simply because when you think about that happening, you expect... more I guess. What I am getting to is that, I know see how beautiful women feel on a constant basis. They get dressed up, go to the club or bar, they get compliments but hardly ever has someone actually try to talk to them and they get frustrated when they see girls who are not anywhere near as good looking get men... It's because the men automatically assume that the woman that is beautiful is "out of their league". My best friend, who happens to be a gorgeous 9.5 redhead, became my best friend over time because 3 years ago, I wouldn’t even let the thought of "someone that beautiful" being with me. When I saw that she actually was attracted to me, it was too late and we were friends, and still are to this day. I wouldn't trade it for the world, but you just never know could have happened if I had balls at the time.
