OK guys, I just started the bootcamp. I'm about 2 weeks into it and its been pretty easy so far. I'm in sales and make "cold calls" all day long so its not difficult approaching strangers and making eye contact when there is no agenda involved (ie trying to score with a chick)
Well, I recently moved into an apartment community that has a bar in it. My roommate and I and some other friends have gone to this bar quiet a few times since we've moved in. There is a waitress there and we know each other by name now. I am kindof starting to develop a thing for her, but I'm kindof apprehensive about asking her out.
First of all, I go there all the time and I fear an awkward situation resulting if she turns me down. I feel like I almost wouldn't even want to go there anymore.
Second, I used to bartend in college. The waitresses would always talk about the losers that asked them out. Very rarely did the girls actually go out with them unless they were serious regulars who ended up becoming friends of friends . You know how stuff works in college towns.
I've already developed a pretty good rapport with her, I have no idea if she has a boyfriend or not, or really anything else about her.
Any advice on how to approach this situation?
Well, I recently moved into an apartment community that has a bar in it. My roommate and I and some other friends have gone to this bar quiet a few times since we've moved in. There is a waitress there and we know each other by name now. I am kindof starting to develop a thing for her, but I'm kindof apprehensive about asking her out.
First of all, I go there all the time and I fear an awkward situation resulting if she turns me down. I feel like I almost wouldn't even want to go there anymore.
Second, I used to bartend in college. The waitresses would always talk about the losers that asked them out. Very rarely did the girls actually go out with them unless they were serious regulars who ended up becoming friends of friends . You know how stuff works in college towns.
I've already developed a pretty good rapport with her, I have no idea if she has a boyfriend or not, or really anything else about her.
Any advice on how to approach this situation?
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