Snakeinthegrass
Don Juan
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- Jan 24, 2006
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Ok....me and a wonderful woman/HB have been dating each other for almost 4 months...
We have never defined our relationship as we always have said it is what it is...
I played it cool, but she really rushed in ....and I kept it cool.
She killed me with sex and comfort...plain and simple...I started to really like her for the things that I got from her...
Recently I noticed she has been acting a little funny...(insecure)...like questioning me about certain things aluding to the fact that I have been messing around with someone else...
Just flaky stuff...
I just plain old asked her does she want to be my woman or don't you? I guess it was almost like asking her if she wanted to be exclusive...
And then I asked her if she loved me or not...(she slipped up in the past and said she did)....
But I ....like a ****in chump...slipped up and said that I loved her....which actually I do...
I revealed my feelings WAY to early....(I realize it was a feeling)
Anyway at that point I talked to her a few days later, and she said that she didn't want to be settled...and she felt like I did...
and then I just said well let's date others but we can still date each other...and she seemed game, but her friends said we shouldn't be doing that ....cuz we've slept together blah blah...
I really like her...I tried to call her...and she didn't answer....left a voicemail asking her if she wanted to go for a date...no answer.
Sent an email...no reponse....
WALKAWAY NOW? Let her come to me next? Or wait a couple of weeks and then ask her if she wants to get out? I'm still game to see this chick....but I know I ****ed up by revealing things too early...but dammit if she didn't suck me in by giving and giving and giving...and sending me the sweet nothings all the time..!
We have never defined our relationship as we always have said it is what it is...
I played it cool, but she really rushed in ....and I kept it cool.
She killed me with sex and comfort...plain and simple...I started to really like her for the things that I got from her...
Recently I noticed she has been acting a little funny...(insecure)...like questioning me about certain things aluding to the fact that I have been messing around with someone else...
Just flaky stuff...
I just plain old asked her does she want to be my woman or don't you? I guess it was almost like asking her if she wanted to be exclusive...
And then I asked her if she loved me or not...(she slipped up in the past and said she did)....
But I ....like a ****in chump...slipped up and said that I loved her....which actually I do...
I revealed my feelings WAY to early....(I realize it was a feeling)
Anyway at that point I talked to her a few days later, and she said that she didn't want to be settled...and she felt like I did...
and then I just said well let's date others but we can still date each other...and she seemed game, but her friends said we shouldn't be doing that ....cuz we've slept together blah blah...
I really like her...I tried to call her...and she didn't answer....left a voicemail asking her if she wanted to go for a date...no answer.
Sent an email...no reponse....
WALKAWAY NOW? Let her come to me next? Or wait a couple of weeks and then ask her if she wants to get out? I'm still game to see this chick....but I know I ****ed up by revealing things too early...but dammit if she didn't suck me in by giving and giving and giving...and sending me the sweet nothings all the time..!