Blurred Elevens
Don Juan
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Ok this is my observation having just read this whole post.
Let me just recap:
1) You forced the sex issue - and had to have a cold shower (which by the way is just crazy - because she probably felt even worse)
I did'nt force it, just had fun with her a litlle, if I pushed it I would have fvcked her
2) Next night you argued and played poker until 9am leaving her alone
True, but I could'nt communicate with her anymore, and she pissed me off
3) she left
4) you didn't call her to see if she was OK until 3 days later.
I explained to her that I did'nt know she was gone, and my cell phone was dead and she had the charger.....I was pissed anyway to get all AFC and come runnig back to her
5) you called her *67 after leaving a message and her not calling back
6) you gave her an ultimatum
7) when she extends an olive branch you go crazy on her and send her an email about your feelings and game playing etc...
OK. In L.A. we had a talk about having a kid together in 3 years if we both weren't with anyone. This may shed some light on our relationship being a little more serious than the superficial one it looks like
So - you wonder why she has not sent you an email back?
Why ask her if you can trust her when your not even dating/seeing/fvcking her?
Dude - it seems to me you've gone AFC over this chick - AFTER 4 YEARS of not seeing her.
Your already talking about kids?
Clearly your in way to deep and you've lost it a little.
possibly
The last thing you should have done is to email her talking about trust and the very thing you argues about in Vegas.
In L.A., we talked about basing our "relationship" on trust, and I mentioned to you the kid thing.
If anything, you should have emailed her telling her that you wish her a great Xmas and New year - and that you can't wait to hear about what she's got upto over Xmas etc.
she knows how I feel, and I'm tired of the games
She just moving out of a relationship with her ex, and she's already feeling presure from you - that sprobably the last thing she wants to feel right now.
I think you hit the bullseye here
I think you fvcked this up well and good.
you're probably right, I won't contact her again unless I hear from her
Quit while your ahead, and learn for the next time.
NewMan-thank you for the insight, you make some really good points, and I think you are dead right on some of them. The others I probably did'nt provide enough info on. Thank you though, more insight from you would be appreciated. Thanks
Let me just recap:
1) You forced the sex issue - and had to have a cold shower (which by the way is just crazy - because she probably felt even worse)
I did'nt force it, just had fun with her a litlle, if I pushed it I would have fvcked her
2) Next night you argued and played poker until 9am leaving her alone
True, but I could'nt communicate with her anymore, and she pissed me off
3) she left
4) you didn't call her to see if she was OK until 3 days later.
I explained to her that I did'nt know she was gone, and my cell phone was dead and she had the charger.....I was pissed anyway to get all AFC and come runnig back to her
5) you called her *67 after leaving a message and her not calling back
6) you gave her an ultimatum
7) when she extends an olive branch you go crazy on her and send her an email about your feelings and game playing etc...
OK. In L.A. we had a talk about having a kid together in 3 years if we both weren't with anyone. This may shed some light on our relationship being a little more serious than the superficial one it looks like
So - you wonder why she has not sent you an email back?
Why ask her if you can trust her when your not even dating/seeing/fvcking her?
Dude - it seems to me you've gone AFC over this chick - AFTER 4 YEARS of not seeing her.
Your already talking about kids?
Clearly your in way to deep and you've lost it a little.
possibly
The last thing you should have done is to email her talking about trust and the very thing you argues about in Vegas.
In L.A., we talked about basing our "relationship" on trust, and I mentioned to you the kid thing.
If anything, you should have emailed her telling her that you wish her a great Xmas and New year - and that you can't wait to hear about what she's got upto over Xmas etc.
she knows how I feel, and I'm tired of the games
She just moving out of a relationship with her ex, and she's already feeling presure from you - that sprobably the last thing she wants to feel right now.
I think you hit the bullseye here
I think you fvcked this up well and good.
you're probably right, I won't contact her again unless I hear from her
Quit while your ahead, and learn for the next time.
NewMan-thank you for the insight, you make some really good points, and I think you are dead right on some of them. The others I probably did'nt provide enough info on. Thank you though, more insight from you would be appreciated. Thanks