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The vast majority of women are NOT golddiggers. A few, yes, but most women fall into that middle ground where money, or at least the potential for money at a future time, is a deciding factor in who they are attracted to.

I'm just curious to hear everyone's thoughts on this.

I know a guy who is in his 40's, definitely not a "cool" guy, but he has money. big house, a couple of $100k trucks, Lambo, Vette, etc., and he also owns a restaurant that employs hot young women.

There is no doubt in my mind that attractive women (even women in their 30's) wouldn't give this guy the time of day if he didn't have money and status. But he has a little harem of late teen-early 20's girls he "keeps". I don't know how much pu$$y he gets out of the deal, but I would assume that most of these chicks string him along and only dish it out in small doses.

On the other hand, a good friend of mine is in his early-mid 30's, decent looking guy, in shape, works in video production but has "family money". He also has a killer pad, big house on a lake with a pool, ski boat, game room, M3 and crotch rocket in the garage, you name it.

This guy could get pu$$y with or without his money. He has a hot g/f, but whenever they get into a fight he calls up a group of chicks and we all go out.

He doesn't "use" his money to pull chicks per se, but he DEFINITELY benefits from it.

So what are your thoughts on this?

As a man, part of your value has to do with your wealth and status.

If you had unlimited cash, like the kind of money that would never run out, would you play the role? To what extent would you use your wealth to attract women?

Keep in mind that part of the reason you have always lusted after that mansion and Ferrari is because your monkey brain KNOWS that those kinds of things make chicks pay attention.

How far would you go?
 

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It's been said around here that you can still f*ck attractive women while being broke. I mean, as far as what I've been able to see, an attractive woman will still let you bang her if you're broke or stay around as a f*ck buddy. And like I've said, I've even seen them marry guys who don't make much money. I've seen it with my attractive aunt and my cousin's attractive girlfriend(as well as other attractive women). My cousin's girlfriend is head over heels with him and wants to tie the knot, but he doesn't feel the same for her. And he still lives at home mind you. He's going to be 27 in Dec.
 

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STR8UP said:
As a man, part of your value has to do with your wealth and status.

If you had unlimited cash, like the kind of money that would never run out, would you play the role? To what extent would you use your wealth to attract women?

Keep in mind that part of the reason you have always lusted after that mansion and Ferrari is because your monkey brain KNOWS that those kinds of things make chicks pay attention.

How far would you go?
Str8up, I'm sure I'm the minority here, but I don't believe my value, as a person, as a man..has a dollar sign appointed to it.

Plus, I don't need a mansion and a ferrari to be happy.

If I had unlimited wealth, it would really be numbers in a bank. At which point, I'd look at what good I could do with my wealth to help people that may need it.

But that's me. That's how far I'd go..

In the big picture, the gold diggers are best suited for guys that feel gold defines their worth.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Str8up, I'm sure I'm the minority here, but I don't believe my value, as a person, as a man..has a dollar sign appointed to it.

Plus, I don't need a mansion and a ferrari to be happy.

If I had unlimited wealth, it would really be numbers in a bank. At which point, I'd look at what good I could do with my wealth to help people that may need it.

But that's me. That's how far I'd go..

In the big picture, the gold diggers are best suited for guys that feel gold defines their worth.
Another rep point for you Mr. Positive.
 

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First of all money is a tool to have fun. When you have money you automatically have social status. You have season tickets to all the sporting events. You drive a ferrari. You have a nice pad. All these things increase your social value which is one of the most important things in gaming woman.

That being said money can't buy respect. If a girl wants you for your money she will never respect you.

If I had a billion dollars I would drive a lambo, a ferrari, live in a big house-nothing 2 extreme. I would have a personal chef, personal trainer, Private sessions in brazilian jiu-jitsu with a bunch of top blackbelts. I would train twice a day but I wouldn't change my lifestyle that much.

As far as woman goes they are just going to come to you without even trying. Imagine pulling in your local blockbuster or target, starbucks with a ferarri. Woman will practically approach you. imagine taking them out to a country club were you give the server a number and everything in the club is comped. The girl will cling on to you soo fast that she will introduce you to her mom within a week.

Having unlimited money makes getting pu$$y so much easier. When I say having money I mean being worth 50 million plus, not the guy that is making 250,000 dollars a year.
 

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This stupid rep. system thing just said "I have to spread more reputation points around to others in order to give you another rep point". How dumb. Well, at least it shows I don't just give freebee rep. points out to people who don't deserve them.
 

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edger- you have a convoluted view of women and money. Of course you dont NEED money to fukk hot chicks, but thats the only point you ever address because you dont think you will ever have any money so you always paint the target around the arrow.

Mr.Positive said:
Str8up, I'm sure I'm the minority here, but I don't believe my value, as a person, as a man..has a dollar sign appointed to it.

Plus, I don't need a mansion and a ferrari to be happy.

If I had unlimited wealth, it would really be numbers in a bank. At which point, I'd look at what good I could do with my wealth to help people that may need it.

But that's me. That's how far I'd go..

In the big picture, the gold diggers are best suited for guys that feel gold defines their worth.
No offense, but that's the typical PC response. I would be willing to bet the reality would be much different.

Nobody "needs" material possessions to make them happy, but i would bet that every last one of us here would change our lifestyles to some extent if we came into an astronomical sum of money overnight.

To deny the fact that your value as a man is affected by your wealth and social status is foolish and ignorant. You can pretend that "good" women don't base their attraction on such superficial things, but the fact is that all else equal, the guy with the "means" will get the girl, and I'm not just talking about the ones who are only out for money.

Hell, all things equal I would go for a CHICK who has money, and men really don't even consider that sort of stuff, so you can imagine the influence it has on women.

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That being said money can't buy respect. If a girl wants you for your money she will never respect you.
That's beside the point. First of all, I wasn't factoring in respect. Second of all, most men completely underestimate the power that you have over women when you have money, and IT ISN'T JUST THE BLATANT THIEVES.

Women are programmed to seek a man of means. End of story.
 

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STR8UP said:
To deny the fact that your value as a man is affected by your wealth and social status is foolish and ignorant. You can pretend that "good" women don't base their attraction on such superficial things, but the fact is that all else equal, the guy with the "means" will get the girl, and I'm not just talking about the ones who are only out for money.
I disagree Str8up. In your first post, you were talking about ferrari's and mansions....most guys don't have that. Most guys work for a living. That's reality.

Fact, you don't need mansions and ferraris to attract women.

You are talking extremes here..being poor, or being extremely wealthy.

What about the average guy that falls in between this? Me included. Let me guess, that average guy is out there bangin hotties and doesn't have time to argue with you.

You don't need to flaunt wealth to impress women. Period. If you do, you are doing something wrong. Fix it.
 

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It's not the actual money their attracted to its your ability to get the money (the journey not the destination) that their attracted to. They see you as a success.
 

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"If you had unlimited cash, like the kind of money that would never run out, would you play the role? To what extent would you use your wealth to attract women?"

I'd use it so far to project the image of success and someone chicks want to be with.

The guy where the party is basically.

And none of them would ever see a dime of my money.

Well ok I guess they'd see it in the clothes and expensive watches and rings I'd be wearing but yeah there'd be no buying everyone in the bar rounds of drinks, no taking chicks on trips or buying them anything costlier than maybe a cup of coffee and even thats stretching what I'd be willing to spend on any chick that I just want to bone knowing what I know now.

No chick would ever get away with playing the string along blue ball game with me if I was a bazillionairre.
 

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STR8UP said:
Of course you dont NEED money to fukk hot chicks, but thats the only point you ever address because you dont think you will ever have any money so you always paint the target around the arrow.
It's comical how on this site everyone thinks they have you "figured out" by your posts. Just because I express my views on money and women, doesn't mean I think, "I'll never have money" or don't have money for that matter. Str8up, do you know me personally? Have you ever met me? The answer is no.

Str8up, in total honesty, to better aquaint you with myself, I definitely wouldn't lump myself in the "wealthy" category, but I can say that I do make decent money. Enough to make a living from and completely support myself. I'd lump myself in the "average/middle income" category. People(especially you for some reason) think that those who speak the way I do about money and women, must not have money or don't think they'll ever have money. Not true at all. It isn't just "broke" people who speak as I do.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
In your first post, you were talking about ferrari's and mansions....most guys don't have that. Most guys work for a living. That's reality.
"Most guys don't have that. Most guys work for a living. That's reality".

Haha, amen to that.

Mr.Positive said:
Fact, you don't need mansions and ferraris to attract women.
Mr.Positive said:
You don't need to flaunt wealth to impress women. Period. If you do, you are doing something wrong. Fix it.
Amen again.

Str8up, if your "wealth" was such a chick magnet for ya, then why are you still single at 36? Why are you still having woman troubles? Every month it's something about this chick, that chick, that chick, etc. By your mentality and because you have wealth, isn't it supposed to be nice and "easy" for you? Shouldn't you have tons and tons of options with attractive women, and by now have been able to sift through a large portion of them, weed out the sh*t, and have settled down?? But apparently that's not the case.

Look at all these wealthy guys who use escorts because women don't come easy to them. Like I've said, most of an escorts clientelle are wealthy men. And guys, spare me the cop-outs that they do it "because it's easier to f*ck an escort so they don't get caught". Cop-outs because they can't be honest and be a man about it and admit that it's tough out there.
 

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The entire dynamic is different when you are wealthy.

While guys who believe they have great game have to make an effort to attract women, guys with money dont need to make as big an effort. Women will be more receptive from the word go if they know you are wealthy. Instead of you hunting them out, they hunt you out.

Making 200k a year is good but could never be considered wealthy.When you at that level you will probably have more options. Sit in the 1 million a year plus category and you are going to have a lot of options regardless of what you look like or how AFC you are. Be one of those guys making 5 million and more a year and you are going to have a harem of pornstars if you want it. Sex with various model quality women is going to be pretty much par for the course. If you dont marry them they will tolerate cheating. They cant top you.

Go to a third world country and see the way the women treat you. While they have not had the issues with feminism that western first world countries have had they do like you because of your status. They know a man who can travel is probably a lot more wealthy then the guy she is dating. Yes, there are other factors that appeal to them but that is the primary one. Your status. You end up having a lot of women chasing you. 10's that would suck your toes and let you **** them up the arse if you stick around a bit. Its a real eye opener.

Sorry, I have seen enough of it in my life. Money talks, bull**** walks. Money and fame are the two biggest aphrodisiacs there are. You have either of those and you are going to **** half the country.
 

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Women are attracted to: wealth, ambition, humor, and when thinking long term they really value SAFETY. That is what they want. They don't want some guy who is going to bang their sister or go to some business conference in Dubai and ravage some Arabian HB. If you are an average joe who clicks with her and is making enough money to support a relatively decent lifestyle then she will want to be with you UNLESS she views you as"dangerous". A "dangerous" guy with mounds of money will have women but the women won't be with him in a normal relationship.
 

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Money was first developed in Sumeria round 3000 BC.
Humans, in our current revision, appeared in Africa round 200,000 years ago.
How did guys get laid in the interim? How did chicks know which guys were wealthy and which were not? I don’t think it’s the money they are after, for women learned how to be attracted to guys long before any idea of accumulated wealth was invented. Many biologists agree that the reason behind the attraction of money and power and fame is the ability, and the self confidence your ability to acquire resources. Obviously, to acquire resources you must subjugate nature, to some extent, and likewise your fellow man. Or kill him.
Sources vary, but most experts agree that speech didn’t really come into play until round 30,000 years ago. That’s 170,000 years with no words and no money. How did they females know?

It was a look, an attitude, the way one was able to move with confidence through rest of the pack. Some would say an ability to know your own potential. A sense of self awareness. It is that self awareness that woman are still attracted to today. That which precedes money, that which precedes power, precedes fame. You can’t get that from any website, or forum, or book. Only when you get the phuck up off you ass and get out there and try and fail and learn and keep at it until you walk this earth with a sense of strength and power unknown to common men.

Sure you can inherit wealth, get “discovered” on American idol, or whatever. Study after study after study shows unearned wealth causes more harm than good. Because unless you really own that core awareness of who you really are, you’re just faking it. You know it, she knows it, everybody else knows it.

Don’t be fooled. It ain’t the money she’s really after. It’s that quality that existed before the money was acquired.

Figure out a way to discover your true self, your true potential, and everything will follow. Remember who you are.
 

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women are guided by deep seated evolutionary desires for Security. Sure it's about money but they are really looking for security and money = security. That's a reason they spin plates because they are doing this calculation in their head all the time: who is going to give me the security I need? It's why they will keep Sherman from IT as a friend and confidante. They may need Sherman down the road, after they have been plundered by all the big strong warriors (security get it?).
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Money was first developed in Sumeria round 3000 BC.
Humans, in our current revision, appeared in Africa round 200,000 years ago.
How did guys get laid in the interim? How did chicks know which guys were wealthy and which were not? I don’t think it’s the money they are after, for women learned how to be attracted to guys long before any idea of accumulated wealth was invented. Many biologists agree that the reason behind the attraction of money and power and fame is the ability, and the self confidence your ability to acquire resources. Obviously, to acquire resources you must subjugate nature, to some extent, and likewise your fellow man. Or kill him.
Sources vary, but most experts agree that speech didn’t really come into play until round 30,000 years ago. That’s 170,000 years with no words and no money. How did they females know?

It was a look, an attitude, the way one was able to move with confidence through rest of the pack. Some would say an ability to know your own potential. A sense of self awareness. It is that self awareness that woman are still attracted to today. That which precedes money, that which precedes power, precedes fame. You can’t get that from any website, or forum, or book. Only when you get the phuck up off you ass and get out there and try and fail and learn and keep at it until you walk this earth with a sense of strength and power unknown to common men.

Sure you can inherit wealth, get “discovered” on American idol, or whatever. Study after study after study shows unearned wealth causes more harm than good. Because unless you really own that core awareness of who you really are, you’re just faking it. You know it, she knows it, everybody else knows it.

Don’t be fooled. It ain’t the money she’s really after. It’s that quality that existed before the money was acquired.

Figure out a way to discover your true self, your true potential, and everything will follow. Remember who you are.
Ah come on dude

Think about it a little. You live in a civilised society where bashing some chaps head in with a rock is just not an acceptable way to express power.

You cant exactly run off and kill a deer or fight off a tiger to protect your kids.

Women like money because its an indication of your ability to provide. Society has changed and currency might be a new concept but the basic instinct she has to seek out the best provider is the reason why money talks!

Chances are that most conception came through rape anyway. Jesus. I dont think Ug was worried about what she thought of him. He pulled the silly little tart aside and had his way with her. Unless of course she had the protection of a stronger man who could prevent that. Chicks like money because money = security. Thats it. Their ***** is their meal ticket.

Trust me. It has **** all to do with your personality when you rich. You can be the biggest wanker alive and as ugly as sin. It does not matter. Look at Donald trump. The guy is a vain, aggressive egotistical arsehole who got the start he did when he inherited a small fortune. Look at the women that guy is banging.
 

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Many human physical traits function as fitness indicators – as cues of viability, fertility, and/or genetic quality. In males, these fitness-indicator traits appear to include height, upper-body musculature, beard growth, jaw size, brow ridge size, and facial attractiveness; in females, these include breasts, buttocks, waists, skin condition, and facial attractiveness. From the standpoint of purely sexual attraction / arousal, these indicators are what we use for comparison among potential mates.

However, our mental traits and behavioral propensities also evolved as fitness indicators, according to the principles of cost-signaling. These mental fitness indicators include some of our capacities for intelligence, creative intelligence (with particular value in innovative problem solving), status-seeking, language, conspicuous altruism and conspicuous consumption. In other words, these traits are found to have provisioning and/or reproductive value based on environment and personal conditions. Thus in an environment flush with artists and creative types, the investment banker may be preferable for provisioning, or vice versa.

These two realms of consideration account in large part for female sexual selection and arousal. Want to know why that HB 9 keeps going back to the unemployed musician in preference to hooking up with you, the successful business owner? A.) He meets her physical arousal standards and B.) She values creative intelligence on some level of consciousness.

However, that said, a male cannot rely entirely upon a single individual realm. One costs what the other sacrifices. Superior provisioning ability comes with a price - usually the sacrifice of physical development of other attributes - in order to achieve it. Superior physical development may come at the cost of social intelligence.
 

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To answer the original question.

yes I would use my money to get pvssy.

I do it today.

I go out on dates, I buy dinner, I drive the car I drive and the clothes I wear. I work the job I do in order to get money to pay for my Lifestyle.

If I had the kind of money OP is talking about, then I would use it to bang the hottest of the hot.

Doesn't mean I'd give her any money - but just by the fact that I have money, and all that goes along with it, they'd be lining up to bang me.

I'd take advantage.
 
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