I wanted to hear your guys' thoughts on making the girl wait for sex.
For instance, i would take a girl out on a first date and when i drop her off at her place, i politely decline coming in if she offers. Idea is it definitely shows high value and that she ain't the only girl in the world.
However, lately I've been experimenting to the point of leaving mid-make out. Boy the look on these chicks faces when i do that. Some even beg me to stay. The next time we meet up its like fireworks, not even a hint of LMR. But here's the thing - there isn't always a next time. I get that nothing is foolproof, but I'm wondering if I'm just passing on free sex.
For instance, just the other night i was hanging out w some friends when one of the girls in the group offered to drive me home in my car. It was infront of everyone too, and i was unprepared for that. I declined since the same group of us were going out the next night, and figured I'd hit it then. But instead, she's all over someone else the next night.
So, thoughts appreciated. Have u guys done anything like this? Is this a good way to qualify girls, or am i stupid for passing up free sex when it's offered? And by doing this, do i risk making the girl think I'm not interested at all, like the other night?
For instance, i would take a girl out on a first date and when i drop her off at her place, i politely decline coming in if she offers. Idea is it definitely shows high value and that she ain't the only girl in the world.
However, lately I've been experimenting to the point of leaving mid-make out. Boy the look on these chicks faces when i do that. Some even beg me to stay. The next time we meet up its like fireworks, not even a hint of LMR. But here's the thing - there isn't always a next time. I get that nothing is foolproof, but I'm wondering if I'm just passing on free sex.
For instance, just the other night i was hanging out w some friends when one of the girls in the group offered to drive me home in my car. It was infront of everyone too, and i was unprepared for that. I declined since the same group of us were going out the next night, and figured I'd hit it then. But instead, she's all over someone else the next night.
So, thoughts appreciated. Have u guys done anything like this? Is this a good way to qualify girls, or am i stupid for passing up free sex when it's offered? And by doing this, do i risk making the girl think I'm not interested at all, like the other night?