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Since when was getting pvssy the main goal in life, to the point where you'd sacrifice morals and truth?

I can honestly say, i would rather lead an honest life and **** 2 girls, than live a life full of lies and **** 1000. And I really do mean that.


Lying is not cool. Especially when there are PEOPLE'S FEELINGS at stake. Sometimes the defense is,
"Oh, well so what? Some other guy/girl would do the EXACT same thing to me."
While that is true, you are doing nothing to stop that by being a selfish prick. And not ALL people are cheating liars, although a lot of them are.

Lying to other people shows no respect for others, or yourself.



So in conclusion, no, I think lying to get quick pvssy is wrong. Just be your BEST self, pull the C+F, do the DJ gaming techniques, but BE AN HONEST, GOOD, UPSTANDING HUMAN BEING.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
this is going to be the most ANTI-DJ thing to ever happen on sosuave......I am talking about FLAT OUT LYING to any girl/girls just so u could end up fcuking them later that night. Has anyone ever done this????

The best (or worst if u wanna think of it that way) thing I ever did was tell a girl that i got lotsa $$ because I am a famous russian pop star ( i am actually russian so its easy to pull off with an american b1tch), and then I sang for her in russian and she melted.........ended up ****ing her that night and then ditching her.........obv i was lying cuz im just a russian guy living in the US and i got an accounting job. lol


tell me guys, isnt it BETTER to lie and make shyt up to sound all special and famous IF all u want to get is some sex. Obv this is NOT A GOOD THING if u want anything somewhats serious...........but if u want JUST some pvssy........i think lying to make urself look better works WONDERS - u just have to be a good actor

again, this is SIMPLY about only getting laid, and nothing else

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I agree with this post so completely that I think I'm getting a headache.

This is absolutely, positively one of the most important things to realise. Lying can get you laid. The problem is, you have to be able to lie well, and for that, you need to cultivate a skill. That skill is the skill of being a 'good liar'.

It is a skill which, if you develop it to a high level, will perviert and corrupt all the things inside you which can ultimately make you truly strong.

Build your house on the rock, as a wise man once said. Sure, being honest is hard - but it's REAL. Once you get your genuine skills of expression to a high level - honest, self-expression that is - you will get laid like a rock star. You'll also be an appalling liar. Which I believe is all for the good.

Excellent post.
 

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JLW - when did i say getting laid is the goal in life? All I am saying is if you AT THE MOMENT only want to get laid, then lying as i mentioned will work wonders!

id rather lie and lay 100 girls than be 100% honest and lay 2.........and fyi, I have been pretty honest with the majority of girls i ****ed, but i did notice a couple of times when I lied it worked very well for me.


drjekyll - your post on cartagrophy of hell is SOOO good that i melted when I read it, it will remain the best post on sosuave in my eyes, but thank you!
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
But cmon AFCS whats with the respect bullshyt? a don juan gets laid by any means necessary!!!
No, that's false. Being a DJ was never about getting laid. That was never the goal. That's the problem with this community these days. Many people have lost sight of what being a DJ was all about.
 

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Never have, never will. Why would I compromise my morals to get laid? That's crazy.
 

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anointed said:
c+f lying can be good.. "im a race car driver".. i dont think it matters if ur in a club and u just want some tang..

reminds me off this thing a friend of mine did.. he was at the ATM machine and the guy infront of him forgot his reciept.. he had somethin like 800,000 in his acocunt and my friend grabbed the reciept and put it in his pocket. He was talkin to some girl in the club and he was like "leme giv u my number" he pulls out the reciept and is like "oh ive only got this atm receipt to write one" he writes his name on it an was like "oh just ignore whats on that side"..

like hell she did :D ... needless to say 2 hours later he was 'all up in that'.. $$$$!!

GOTTA LOVE THAT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't get why people have a problem with this. You lied about your MONEY -- IT GOT YOU ****ING LAID -- the girl was in the wrong too -- for having sex with a guy just for his money!!

If you want to be 100% moral and upright, then why don't you abstain from sex altogether, as its degrading to women and risky, etc.. etc..
 

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anointed said:
c+f lying can be good.. "im a race car driver".. i dont think it matters if ur in a club and u just want some tang..

reminds me off this thing a friend of mine did.. he was at the ATM machine and the guy infront of him forgot his reciept.. he had somethin like 800,000 in his acocunt and my friend grabbed the reciept and put it in his pocket. He was talkin to some girl in the club and he was like "leme giv u my number" he pulls out the reciept and is like "oh ive only got this atm receipt to write one" he writes his name on it an was like "oh just ignore whats on that side"..

like hell she did :D ... needless to say 2 hours later he was 'all up in that'.. $$$$!!
Lol...wow, that is just classic. I should try that.:up:
 

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LOL to this thread.

I agree with this post so completely that I think I'm getting a headache.

This is absolutely, positively one of the most important things to realise. Lying can get you laid. The problem is, you have to be able to lie well, and for that, you need to cultivate a skill. That skill is the skill of being a 'good liar'.

It is a skill which, if you develop it to a high level, will perviert and corrupt all the things inside you which can ultimately make you truly strong.

Build your house on the rock, as a wise man once said. Sure, being honest is hard - but it's REAL. Once you get your genuine skills of expression to a high level - honest, self-expression that is - you will get laid like a rock star. You'll also be an appalling liar. Which I believe is all for the good.

Excellent post.
By appalling liar do you mean appallingly talented liar, or appallingly incompetent liar?

I'm not sure if I see why you agree.

I'm pretty sure I agree with what you're saying... learn how to be genuine and you'll be able to grow a tongue more forked than the devil himself. Been there.
 

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you're a fvcking dirtbag dude.

no im not, but thanks for the random insult on an internet forum, u must feel like u just contributed to the thread, right?
 

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Let me wrap this thread up, since we have nothing but a bunch of kids shouting in class here.


Everyone has a different ethics meter. Some of us here are appalled at the very idea of saying something untrue. Some have no moral obligations for doing anything they can to get the result. Some, like me, are in the middle:


You are very deluded if you believe that girls do not lie. You probably have the moral compass of a 5 year old if you think women do not have an agenda. Think about this - if human species are largely the same, then what a guy feel and does could be very close to what a woman does. What I mean by this is there are plenty of girls out there who will lie to get laid as well. Take your typical friday night - She goes in the shower and uses 5 different products that promise the impossible. She cakes her face with layers of make up to cover up years of partying and late night. Her push up bra makes her at least twice as endowed as she really is. The jeans effectively hide the fat and show off the ass. Heels make her just the perfect height.

Now this is looks alone, we are not even going to get into the reasons why girls not mention having a boyfriends/husbands, kids, STDs, being a golddigger, being a *****.


So to wrap it all up in a nice little package. Girls are not made of sugar. Girls are pretty much the same as us, guys. If you want to lie to get laid today, and you have no major fukk ups about it, go ahead and do it. As long as you can stay true to yourself and not take this seriously, have fun.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
when did i say getting laid is the goal in life?
Why would you need to lie if you weren't desperate nor care about getting laid? If chasing girls weren't your goal in life than why do you spend so much time on figuring out how to get girls? It's pretty funny to see you saying that it isn't your goal in life to get laid because other than your hobbies what's better than sex?

You say your short game is fine but you have a hard time keeping girls...considering your goal IS NOT TO GET LAID in life you can come up with some better posts other than lying to women, no? Sure, you could probably get laid a lot if you were a really good liar- but then again people always get good at something they spend a lot of time doing...get me? You can't have it both ways- either you're an honest individual who's a horrible liar or a lyin' sumb!tch who couldn't tell the truth on his deathbed. All those quality women you want to keep in an LTR will not stick around once you get caught in all your lies.

Yeah, lying works...but so does telling the truth if you know how to express yourself.

Demon said:
No, that's false. Being a DJ was never about getting laid. That was never the goal. That's the problem with this community these days. Many people have lost sight of what being a DJ was all about.
qft. It makes me happy to see there's still some classy gentlemen around here. :)
 

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class doesnt get u laid........

and let me reiterate, ive flat out lied to get some pvssy on only a few occasions, and most of those lies were along the lines of "i love you baby, u are so special to me, we have such a special connection"

LOL
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
class doesnt get u laid........

and let me reiterate, ive flat out lied to get some pvssy on only a few occasions, and most of those lies were along the lines of "i love you baby, u are so special to me, we have such a special connection"

LOL
Anything can probably get you laid if you try hard enough...even chumps manage to something right by some girls to get their willy wet. I'm not contesting that it doesn't work, of course it does- unless you live for a higher code of ethics. I don't have a problem with others doing it if that's their style but it's not for me.
 

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**** ethics.........i had ethics b4 and nto only did i not get laid, but i got played!

also, if 1 is getting laid, then he is not a chump, but if 1 is NOT getting laid, then he IS a chump (chump = guy who tries to be nice and ends up not gettin any)
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
**** ethics.........i had ethics b4 and nto only did i not get laid, but i got played!

also, if 1 is getting laid, then he is not a chump, but if 1 is NOT getting laid, then he IS a chump (chump = guy who tries to be nice and ends up not gettin any)
...then there's that problem of not being able to keep the girls you like- that's fine and all, but lying isn't going to help you grow and mature as a DJ. If you're lying to get girls into bed then your ethics are questionable at best.

Being nice has nothing to do with getting laid- neither does being a pimp or AFC. Girls will sleep with guys for a variety of reasons, including loneliness, needing a rebound, insecurity or maybe they're just drunk. Being a DJ means being able to get consistently better results with women and facing fears while improving one's self- not doing whatever it takes to get a woman to sleep with you.

I used to be a total chump and I once slept with a girl at a party without saying more than a few words to her the entire night- she just invited me to sleep with her! The world is not black and white as you see it. You're getting played because you still desire the approval of women deep down- not because you were being "nice". Improve your self image and inner game; be true to yourself and what you want from others...anything else and you are selling yourself short.
 

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Demon said:
No, that's false. Being a DJ was never about getting laid. That was never the goal. That's the problem with this community these days. Many people have lost sight of what being a DJ was all about.
Yeah, right. What was it about, then? Learning how to tune a piano? Becoming a better carpenter? If you want self-improvement, go and post on Tony Robbins.

Fact is, this site was created by people who wanted to lay as many hbs as they could. Bottom line. The truth that is beginning to emerge, however, is that since looks are the largest part of the game, most guys will never become complete djs no matter how much they might want to. Therefore, they are better off practising finding a "one true love" they can settle down with and start a family with. Because if they don't, they are going to find themselves 45 and lonely and trying to dj the divorced-with-kids market, which is about as sad an existence as I can imagine.
 

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MIKE.T said:
What was it about, then? ... Fact is, this site was created by people who wanted to lay as many hbs as they could.
Allen Thompson established SoSuave.com as The Don Juan Center in 1998 as a resource for men to meet, date, and attract women. There was never any requirement that those who published through the DJ Center or participated in the community must make their life about getting laid. In fact, there was an understood flexibility with regard to the goals of individuals. The people who frequent this website and participate in this community do so for a variety of reasons, from validation of behavior to comfort in times of need to familiarizing themselves with male relationship issues to transforming their health and body.

The immortal enemy of the Don Juan has always been the shallow, careless, and selfish Jerks who exist only to prey upon women. These jerks include the likes of skip2mylou781 and his cronies who promote deceit and malpractice to take advantage of their unsuspecting victims. Their behavior amounts to physical and mental abuse. At some point in their desperate lives, they will be brought up on charges. They are despised, hated, and if the moderators here had access to ban controls, they would be prohibited from accessing this community entirely. They will inevitably hit rock bottom and realize that they, too, hate the men they've become.

Don Juans understand that there is more to life than sex. By pursuing a better life, Don Juans become better men.
 
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anointed said:
c+f lying can be good.. "im a race car driver".. i dont think it matters if ur in a club and u just want some tang..

reminds me off this thing a friend of mine did.. he was at the ATM machine and the guy infront of him forgot his reciept.. he had somethin like 800,000 in his acocunt and my friend grabbed the reciept and put it in his pocket. He was talkin to some girl in the club and he was like "leme giv u my number" he pulls out the reciept and is like "oh ive only got this atm receipt to write one" he writes his name on it an was like "oh just ignore whats on that side"..

like hell she did :D ... needless to say 2 hours later he was 'all up in that'.. $$$$!!
your "friend" wouldn't have been in a certain movie from about 10 years ago would he?
seriously-what is going on when I see a post about lies and I see someone that gotta lie to the rest of you
 
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