hey..i have a problem..i just started college and are always feeling down with my insecurities which i know its NOTHING REALLY but why is it still bothering me? i feel that this is driving my friends away from me..i did this before..and it didnt turn out good,my best friend is in the college with me,however i dont know why is he thinking bad about me,he says something like i only want to be friends with him when i need him.Hey i dont have bad intentions on him.its just that i feel that i'm not spending much time with him like usual as before we started college.this has got to change man.the reason of my issue here is i dont feel confident about myself and cant handle pressure well.Look, all i want is to be a top student. I am generally quiet and shy.Any tips guys? I really want to have a great life.