Been a while since I updated this, to be honest it's because not alot has actually happened in the past month.
I got a new job at a golf centre near me so I can save some money to go travelling later next year. Initially I thought it was a goldmine for women, until I found out that most of the staff are much younger than me, I'm only 22 haha but the girls working at this place are all 18 or younger. There's only a handful of girls my age, and of them all, only 2 are not my managers.
So instead of going for work colleagues I have been practising flirting with the guests at the club. My job is to basically chat to people, make sure they're comfortable and take their food and drink orders if they need anything. The jobs similar to a waiter, but different at the same time. I think it's good practice, especially for help with openers, and I do feel a bit more comfortable just striking up a conversation now, not that it was a problem before, now it's just easier.
One thing I am excited for is an event I have heard about for January, the golf club is part of a chain of clubs and every year head office rents out a club in London and the people from each of the venues across the country come together and party. Sounds like a blast.
I have been looking around on POF to get a few new women to talk to. So far I haven't had massive amounts of success, I've got a couple numbers, but no dates set up yet. Think I'll just keep at it for a bit and see what happens.
I've been more consistent with the gym lately as well, I'm back to going 3/4 times a week and it feels good. The only problem is that I am struggling to eat enough, I had a weight-gainer protein come in the post the start of the week, so hopefully that will help supplement what I already eat so that I can actually start putting on some muscle.
Thoughts as always are appreciated.
Gunner
I got a new job at a golf centre near me so I can save some money to go travelling later next year. Initially I thought it was a goldmine for women, until I found out that most of the staff are much younger than me, I'm only 22 haha but the girls working at this place are all 18 or younger. There's only a handful of girls my age, and of them all, only 2 are not my managers.
So instead of going for work colleagues I have been practising flirting with the guests at the club. My job is to basically chat to people, make sure they're comfortable and take their food and drink orders if they need anything. The jobs similar to a waiter, but different at the same time. I think it's good practice, especially for help with openers, and I do feel a bit more comfortable just striking up a conversation now, not that it was a problem before, now it's just easier.
One thing I am excited for is an event I have heard about for January, the golf club is part of a chain of clubs and every year head office rents out a club in London and the people from each of the venues across the country come together and party. Sounds like a blast.
I have been looking around on POF to get a few new women to talk to. So far I haven't had massive amounts of success, I've got a couple numbers, but no dates set up yet. Think I'll just keep at it for a bit and see what happens.
I've been more consistent with the gym lately as well, I'm back to going 3/4 times a week and it feels good. The only problem is that I am struggling to eat enough, I had a weight-gainer protein come in the post the start of the week, so hopefully that will help supplement what I already eat so that I can actually start putting on some muscle.
Thoughts as always are appreciated.
Gunner