I realized that I've been putting myself in a negative mindset when I see a beautiful girl. I never used to do this (until I went through a few relationships that failed). It dawned on me how I immediately set myself up with a negative mindset when I see a cute girl (nervousness, I can do this...but I'll probably fail, she's too cute for me, probably has a boyfriend; just a few things that start to run through my head).
It never occurred to me that I do this "routine" to myself, and later on wonder how I failed/am failing as a person. On that note, I feel way better now that I've finally solved a big piece of a puzzle that is my mind.
I'm just kind of writing this out to clear my own thoughts. Gotta say I feel much more relieved now. Any thoughts are welcome.
It never occurred to me that I do this "routine" to myself, and later on wonder how I failed/am failing as a person. On that note, I feel way better now that I've finally solved a big piece of a puzzle that is my mind.
I'm just kind of writing this out to clear my own thoughts. Gotta say I feel much more relieved now. Any thoughts are welcome.