FindingMyCool
Don Juan
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- Aug 5, 2008
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She was my girlfriend from the first day we met. I was drunk but everything clicked and I was working it in style . . . then the relationship began and I was taking her out, we would drink . . . sometimes I'd buy more than my fair share but we always enjoyed ourselves . . . then I got injured and became depressed, the relationship fell apart as I lost my character, ultimately, I lost my girl.
I lost my confidence too . . . now, out the other end of it all, feeling good, I want her back.
It is hard though, much moreso than it was initially winning her over.
I met with her and some friends, we had a talk and she decided that we should get to know each other better, since she was my girlfriend from day one and we have no real past, this made sense . . .
So I met her again with some friends in a bar today . . . and it was awkward, we never really spoke. I became frustrated, distant and intraverted . . . spent most of my time away from her. All the friends would talk about us, and to us, about where our futures lie and she wasn't exactly giving positive responses.
What bugs me most, is not that fact we might not get back, but the fact she has the upper hand . . . the fact she initially ended the relationship when I was in bad form and is seeing fit to move on . . . I thought she was hitting on a guy at the bar . . .
What do I do . . .
I think I am gonna tell her straight up how we should give it another go and to hell with the past . . . I was ill and depressed, she can't hold that against me, it's not my true character.
I need some inspiration or ideas people.
Advise me.
I lost my confidence too . . . now, out the other end of it all, feeling good, I want her back.
It is hard though, much moreso than it was initially winning her over.
I met with her and some friends, we had a talk and she decided that we should get to know each other better, since she was my girlfriend from day one and we have no real past, this made sense . . .
So I met her again with some friends in a bar today . . . and it was awkward, we never really spoke. I became frustrated, distant and intraverted . . . spent most of my time away from her. All the friends would talk about us, and to us, about where our futures lie and she wasn't exactly giving positive responses.
What bugs me most, is not that fact we might not get back, but the fact she has the upper hand . . . the fact she initially ended the relationship when I was in bad form and is seeing fit to move on . . . I thought she was hitting on a guy at the bar . . .
What do I do . . .
I think I am gonna tell her straight up how we should give it another go and to hell with the past . . . I was ill and depressed, she can't hold that against me, it's not my true character.
I need some inspiration or ideas people.
Advise me.