crooklyncrew
Don Juan
This is a continuation of my previous post:
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86493
Well, I deleted aim and I haven't talked to Jane for maybe 1-2 weeks. She's e-mailed me three times, one of them not even counting really as it was just two words. I guess she noticed the absence of my presence. XD
Anyways, in her last e-mail she wrote about a page outlining what's going on in her life, how she hoped I was doing ok, why am I not answering her, etc. I didn't really have any desire to answer her so I haven't replied to any of her e-mails or talked to her since the first post I made here.
Then, one day my friend says she messaged him on myspace. She was asking where I was and why I wasn't talking to her. She goes on about how she tried to e-mail me and I haven't responded to any of her messages, how she can't get ahold of me, and finally she says "I guess he doesn't want to talk to me, but the sad thing is I don't know why.." He covered for me the entire time saying I'm probably busy with school and all the things I'm trying to do in my life.
But see! That's why I'm not talking to her anymore, because she acts so damn oblivious. She knows I liked her, but she acts like she couldn't possibly see why I wouldn't talk to her after her last conversation of her giving me some bs rejection. Not gonna have a bf for exactly three years, please. Not to mention, I used to send her e-mails and messages and she'd COMPLETELY ignore them, now she wants to ***** and moan cause I don't answer her for a WEEK!? A week! I could see if it was a month, but damn... she must really be feeling the absence now. When I was available to her, she took me for granted. Now that I put my foot down and left without explanation, she's going out of her way to try to talk to me. I hope everyone learns something from this.
From now on a girl gets one chance with me. If they **** it up, there's no going back. I'm moving on, plain and simple. Too bad she's only e-mailing me when I'm gone, cause it's too little too late.
I want to get some advice. I was contemplating on answering her (since she's going through a surgery soon), but I know if I answer her she'll probably end up taking me for granted again because she would have gotten what she wanted - a reply from me. It feels kind of good ignoring her messages like she did to me and letting her know I'm not available at her demand. But at the same time I don't want it to seem like I'm "ignoring" her or like I'm mad at her for no reason. That would seem childish. I just want her to get the idea that I'm doing things in my life and handling my business, and at the same time that she's not my top priority anymore. So if I reply, when should I and what should I say? I just want to get some opinions on how to handle things from here. I kind of want her to get the idea that I'm handling business, but she's not a part of my life anymore without actually SAYING that literally. Anyone know what I mean?
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86493
Well, I deleted aim and I haven't talked to Jane for maybe 1-2 weeks. She's e-mailed me three times, one of them not even counting really as it was just two words. I guess she noticed the absence of my presence. XD
Anyways, in her last e-mail she wrote about a page outlining what's going on in her life, how she hoped I was doing ok, why am I not answering her, etc. I didn't really have any desire to answer her so I haven't replied to any of her e-mails or talked to her since the first post I made here.
Then, one day my friend says she messaged him on myspace. She was asking where I was and why I wasn't talking to her. She goes on about how she tried to e-mail me and I haven't responded to any of her messages, how she can't get ahold of me, and finally she says "I guess he doesn't want to talk to me, but the sad thing is I don't know why.." He covered for me the entire time saying I'm probably busy with school and all the things I'm trying to do in my life.
But see! That's why I'm not talking to her anymore, because she acts so damn oblivious. She knows I liked her, but she acts like she couldn't possibly see why I wouldn't talk to her after her last conversation of her giving me some bs rejection. Not gonna have a bf for exactly three years, please. Not to mention, I used to send her e-mails and messages and she'd COMPLETELY ignore them, now she wants to ***** and moan cause I don't answer her for a WEEK!? A week! I could see if it was a month, but damn... she must really be feeling the absence now. When I was available to her, she took me for granted. Now that I put my foot down and left without explanation, she's going out of her way to try to talk to me. I hope everyone learns something from this.
From now on a girl gets one chance with me. If they **** it up, there's no going back. I'm moving on, plain and simple. Too bad she's only e-mailing me when I'm gone, cause it's too little too late.
I want to get some advice. I was contemplating on answering her (since she's going through a surgery soon), but I know if I answer her she'll probably end up taking me for granted again because she would have gotten what she wanted - a reply from me. It feels kind of good ignoring her messages like she did to me and letting her know I'm not available at her demand. But at the same time I don't want it to seem like I'm "ignoring" her or like I'm mad at her for no reason. That would seem childish. I just want her to get the idea that I'm doing things in my life and handling my business, and at the same time that she's not my top priority anymore. So if I reply, when should I and what should I say? I just want to get some opinions on how to handle things from here. I kind of want her to get the idea that I'm handling business, but she's not a part of my life anymore without actually SAYING that literally. Anyone know what I mean?