afc_recovering
Don Juan
I was hanging out with this girl regularly and hooking up but I saw myself becoming her 'backup' plan as she was looking for other guys. She got hammered and made out with some guy so I just ended things. In past experiences girls have always crawled back to me so that is what I expected her to do. The truth is she has treated it exactly like I would if I was her and this damn girl is starting to get into my head.
At first she messaged me saying that she felt bad but was angry wihow I treated the situation (didn't talk to her about it, just stopped talking to her) I just laughed at her and she eventually stopped talking.
I continued ignoring her for about 2 weeks and to my surprise she didn't try to contact me when eventually she messaged me appologizing and hoping I could come to her 19th birthday in a couple days. I agreed that I would go since it was another one of my friends birthdays anyways.
Since then she has initiated conversation 3 times since and 2 of the times she started the convo but then kinda went silent and 1 time I said I had to go after just a few minutes.
In the conversations she has dropped lines about how she has been really busy etc. How can I turn this into an f buddy relationship?
thanks guys
At first she messaged me saying that she felt bad but was angry wihow I treated the situation (didn't talk to her about it, just stopped talking to her) I just laughed at her and she eventually stopped talking.
I continued ignoring her for about 2 weeks and to my surprise she didn't try to contact me when eventually she messaged me appologizing and hoping I could come to her 19th birthday in a couple days. I agreed that I would go since it was another one of my friends birthdays anyways.
Since then she has initiated conversation 3 times since and 2 of the times she started the convo but then kinda went silent and 1 time I said I had to go after just a few minutes.
In the conversations she has dropped lines about how she has been really busy etc. How can I turn this into an f buddy relationship?
thanks guys