InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2003
- Messages
- 767
- Reaction score
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- Age
- 38
This person is unbelieveable. The funny thing is I've known this person for a very, very, very, long time. This person was always there for me. Through all my trials, tribulations, and short comings. This person never gave up on me even though in the back of my mind I wanted to.
I can't live without this person, my life has no meaning without them. I can't breathe, I can't walk, I can't do anything without them. Now everytime I see this person I can't help but smile.
The only right thing for me to do is declare my love....
I love me I love waking up, rolling out of bed and going to the bathroom and looking in the mirror. I love treating myself to things I like and enjoy. Just so I can show myself how much I love me because I'm worth every bit of it.
This is something that's striked my heart gentleman. I will not be ashamed to admit that I've never really had a "girlfriend." When I was younger I always thought you were just suppose to get one because it was cool. Then when I got older I changed my belief to " I want a girl so that someone will love me and I can have someone I connect with."
What a fool I've been, how decieved and blinded I was! How can I want to be the perfect boyfriend, lover, companion when I don't excersie any of these principals on myself?
I propose a challenge...gentleman. Fall in love with yourself Go for a walk alone, go out sometime. Just go on a date, but don't bring anyone with you. Treat yourself, sweep your ownself off your feet. (figurely speaking)
We wonder why we can't find the right girl or get a girl. So we come here and try to learn all these tips and such, there all good tips don't get me wrong. However, we have forgot about the focal point. None of this works without you and me. If we don't pamper and love ourselves how can we expect women to love us?
A relationship is suppose to be about giving and not recieving. Well how can we love someone if we don't truly love ourselves. This doesn't go just for girls, this goes for your family, friends, exc.
So in conclusion....show love to yourself then show love to others; not the other way around. Don't worry about becoming ****y. Love is the furtherest thing from ****y.
I can't live without this person, my life has no meaning without them. I can't breathe, I can't walk, I can't do anything without them. Now everytime I see this person I can't help but smile.
The only right thing for me to do is declare my love....
I love me I love waking up, rolling out of bed and going to the bathroom and looking in the mirror. I love treating myself to things I like and enjoy. Just so I can show myself how much I love me because I'm worth every bit of it.
This is something that's striked my heart gentleman. I will not be ashamed to admit that I've never really had a "girlfriend." When I was younger I always thought you were just suppose to get one because it was cool. Then when I got older I changed my belief to " I want a girl so that someone will love me and I can have someone I connect with."
What a fool I've been, how decieved and blinded I was! How can I want to be the perfect boyfriend, lover, companion when I don't excersie any of these principals on myself?
I propose a challenge...gentleman. Fall in love with yourself Go for a walk alone, go out sometime. Just go on a date, but don't bring anyone with you. Treat yourself, sweep your ownself off your feet. (figurely speaking)
We wonder why we can't find the right girl or get a girl. So we come here and try to learn all these tips and such, there all good tips don't get me wrong. However, we have forgot about the focal point. None of this works without you and me. If we don't pamper and love ourselves how can we expect women to love us?
A relationship is suppose to be about giving and not recieving. Well how can we love someone if we don't truly love ourselves. This doesn't go just for girls, this goes for your family, friends, exc.
So in conclusion....show love to yourself then show love to others; not the other way around. Don't worry about becoming ****y. Love is the furtherest thing from ****y.